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NurseyWursey · 18/03/2014 00:32

A woman on my facebook has just posted a 'selfie' of herself with no makeup with the caption 'I am doin this selfie with no make up on to raise awareness for cancer .. if your tagged in this then u have been nominated to do it'

I posted asking how exactly this is raising awareness for cancer.

Have had loads of inboxes of abuse from random people saying I'm evil and obviously don't give a shit about cancer Confused

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NurseyWursey · 18/03/2014 17:12
Blush

why thankyou!

I think I may come off facebook for a while...

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PedantMarina · 18/03/2014 17:18

Or just get yourself a better class of FB friends. There's no shame in deleting friends who just aren't compatible with what you want to accomplish on there.

PS got such a girl crush on you for that message. :">

NurseyWursey · 18/03/2014 17:26

Yeah good point, although there's genuinely naice friend's being tagged in these things so they're popping up anyway.

Oh why thankyou Blush

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RunLikeSomeFeckersChasing · 18/03/2014 17:29

Wish I knew you nursey. I'd be liking that post.

redexpat · 18/03/2014 17:38

I would 'like' that last comment!

Joysmum · 18/03/2014 17:41

My mum anD one of my best friends are battling cancer but I don't pass on the pointless crap like that. I will however 'like' the stuff they post.

It reminds of the, 'if you're against child abuse' or 'if you love you child with all your being' type crap as well. Clearly I must endorse child abuse and not give a shit about my daughter as I don't pass those on either.

I care by donating to McMillan and helping run a support group.

I'm sure those posting twatty things could make a difference by donating a couple of quid if they can afford it. Unfortunately most see this serving crap as them not needing to do anything else because they've already helped Angry

Nennypops · 18/03/2014 17:45

NurseyWursey, you are to be applauded for being politically incorrect and calling social pressure out

There's nothing politically correct about these posts, and Nursey wasn't being politically incorrect in refusing to take part. She was just being sensible.

And I absolute LOVE Nursey's rant. I am so borrowing that if anyone inflicts one of these selfies on me.

hackmum · 18/03/2014 17:55

Loved your rant, Nursey. Obviously won't do any good (an idiot is an idiot is an idiot) but it cheered me up. And hopefully you too.

NurseyWursey · 18/03/2014 17:58

I got it off my chest, I can now vacate the internet knowing I've had my say Wink

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MadAriadne · 18/03/2014 18:10

NurseyWursey If you get any more abuse from those Neanderthal randoms, feel free, if you want, to forward this thread. Remind them we are the Manukas among hunnies and we know what we're talking about.

picnicbasketcase · 18/03/2014 18:14

(Metaphorically) standing up and clapping Nursey's rant, well done you.

weebarra · 18/03/2014 18:17

Nursey, you are ace.

AlpacaLypse · 18/03/2014 18:44

I'm feeling even more proud of being a MNetter rather than a FBker than usual!

Well done Smile

And loads of Flowers Cake Wine and Brew for everyone who's having to put up with the crap that is cancer in their lives right now.

NurseyWursey · 18/03/2014 18:56

If you get any more abuse from those Neanderthal randoms, feel free, if you want, to forward this thread. Remind them we are the Manukas among hunnies and we know what we're talking about

Muahah love it!

Cake Wine Brew for all!

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Prettykitty111 · 18/03/2014 19:08

nursey I LOVE you. Can I be your friend. I also get ranty at these stupid "chain" statuses and it pisses me off even more when they can't even write it without resorting to text speak. I'm dying to get nominated so I can use your comment. Facebook makes me such a ball of rage I only look at my friends photos now I can't read all the crap

NurseyWursey · 18/03/2014 19:18

I'm always in need of new friends I'm too much of a nowty ranty bugger for most people ha

There was one going around with a picture of a seriously ill little boy and 'click like and facebook will donate £1'.

I did a reverse image search, found where they'd nicked the photo from, and posted it underneath and let them know that the little boy had in fact died 3 years ago and anyone who believes facebook will give quids for a like are tools anyway.

Victor Medrew I am.

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NurseyWursey · 18/03/2014 19:18

Meldrew*

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StrawberryCheese · 18/03/2014 19:26

I am proud to say that my little (23yo) DB's current FB status reads 'How does posting selfies with no make up on create awareness for cancer?! Why don't you follow the link and and donate money instead.' Followed by a link to the cancer research uk webpage.

He's a good boy Grin

NurseyWursey · 18/03/2014 19:28

Good on him! Aww little. He's only 2 years younger than me

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Indith · 18/03/2014 20:28

Oh no, my first one has popped up on my newsfeed. Clearly someone with poor privacy settings because it isn't one of my friends, it has popped up because a friend (and MNer) has been tagged. Will she won't she. I'm betting on won't. I think her views will be along the lines of nursey's.

StillaChocoholic · 18/03/2014 20:45

I've been moaning to DH about this today. There is no frigging point! People are aware of cancer FFS
Nursey your rant was brilliant!

TwittyMcTwitterson · 18/03/2014 20:56

I've just posted a very judgey pants status with links to cancer research and Anthony Nolan.

just kidding, we are all equally unenlightened

TwittyMcTwitterson · 18/03/2014 20:57

I've just posted a very judgey pants status with links to cancer research and Anthony Nolan.

just kidding, we are all equally unenlightened

TwittyMcTwitterson · 18/03/2014 20:58

I've just posted a very judgey pants status with links to cancer research and Anthony Nolan.

just kidding, we are all equally unenlightened

Whereisegg · 18/03/2014 21:13

I would like the shit out of that comment if I saw it Nursey, it's all over my bloody feed.

I donate money and blood as support for cancer research, a selfie? What the hell will that do??