to be seeing him every day when he lives with someone else?

[ClockWatchingLady]

A lovely, friendly fat tabby cat sits in an alcove by my front door and waits for me. We share some lovely moments. I can't let him in though, can I, even if I don't give him dinner?
Even though we're a bit in love...?

Do you know who he belongs to? Why don't ypou just pop round and say hello so they know he might be with you if they are wondering where he is.

You obviously have feelings for each other. I'd be tempted to see where the relationship goes............ This could just blossom into something beautiful.

As long as you don't feed him it's fine, cats need many homes

ORB. He's using you

Cats like to share the hairs love. Just don't feed him:)

Or LTB as I thought i'd posted

Cats don't really have owners. Let him in if you want to. Especially if he's one of the ones that lives next door to me.

Find out who thinks they own him and go round. Maybe you can negotiate some sort of timeshare.

This is very exciting... If MN says I can, then I can!
I hope he doesn't lose interest when he realises he's only being asked in for coffee.

Sounds like ours. Great big meaty tabby with a purr like a motorcycle revving up? Ours is sulking after being refused a helping of chicken

He is clearly a brazen hussy. Do not fall for his sly charms. He just wants to share his hairballs with you.

:)

No. There is a huge thread on here about a cat-stealing neighbour.

If you'd said 'devastatingly handsome grey cat' I'd have answered:

I'm one of his people (the main one, I like to think) but beware because he's a complete tart and has many women on the go...

Yeah, turns out he's not bloody there now. You were right, 50bales.

My neighbour feeds one of my cats and I want to strangle the bitch sometimes. I had to go over and knock her door on bonfire night to see if he was there because I hadn't seen him for a whole day and I wanted to make sure he was inside when the fireworks started. He was.

'Oh, he won't go back out sometimes' she says - I want to say 'Don't let him in you silly bitch he's not your cat!'

I'm fascinated where my bloke tarts himself, I do wonder if he ever takes them presents are they are strictly for me...

Ooh cats. I miss mine.

No presents for me yet, but I'm holding out hope for Christmas

Next door have a kitten that pops to ours for lessons on being a cat from my big gingers. This mainly consists of pinching a biscuit, thwacking the tail of the youngest ginger then smugly sitting next to me for half an hour winding him up before vanishing again.

Please let him in. Every cat in your house in one less in my garden.

The gingers have a lady who walks her dog past the gate every day trained to bring them a cat treat. Hussies, brazen too!

Right Mr Tabby, MN has made me wise to your ways. I'll be checking your Facebook profile tonight.

They lure you in and make you their slave especially fat tabbies he is fat because he has learned how to manipulate human subordinates