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to find it disgusting that my DF does this...

63 replies

wontletmesignin · 04/12/2013 14:39

He uses a knife to cut bread, pears, apples, pretty much anything. Then wipes it with a tea towel (that has been used all throughout that day for different things), then puts it back in the drawer.

It knocks me sick. Especially since i eat there at times. The more i see him do it, the less i want to eat there! Unless i clean my knife and fork beforehand, which i would find rude if somebody done that here.

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TurnOffTheTv · 04/12/2013 14:42

I do that if I cut bread unless he's using the tea towel to wipe his arse with I don't see the problem!

CMOTDibbler · 04/12/2013 14:44

Meh. As long as its not raw meat that he's cutting, no ones going to die.

Middleagedmotheroftwo · 04/12/2013 14:44

Wouldn't really bother me either. Sorry OP.

eurochick · 04/12/2013 14:44
SlimJiminy · 04/12/2013 14:45

I do that sometimes too. Not if I've prepared a meal or used it to spread butter or something, but for a cutting a bit of bread or a piece of fruit I'd give it a quick wipe and put it back in the drawer. Sorry.

wontletmesignin · 04/12/2013 14:45

Ahh nevermind then. Must just be me. I wasnt sure Hmm

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TurnOffTheTv · 04/12/2013 14:46

What exactly is he doing with the tea towel that would knock you sick? I'm just interested in why you have a problem with it Smile

squeakytoy · 04/12/2013 14:49

I would do the same.. so long as the teatowel is not filthy I cant see a problem

wontletmesignin · 04/12/2013 14:49

It can be used for everything. To wipe things off of the floor, wipe dog food up, hands.

I think it is just me. Im finicky like that. Wasnt sure so thought id ask.

The bread doesnt bother me that much. It is the other things.

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Fairylea · 04/12/2013 14:50

I take it you snog this man and possibly also have oral sex with him? Surely a bit of fruit juice on a tea towel is hardly worth worrying about!

whois · 04/12/2013 14:51

I have a towel for hands, and a tea towel used to dry clean cutlery. If I've used a knife to cut bread only, I will wipe with the tea towel and put back.
Don't do that for anything other than bread tho, anything wet gets a proper wipe with a wet cloth.

wontletmesignin · 04/12/2013 14:51

Huh ...DF! Oh my haha fairylea my dad

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TeamSouthfields · 04/12/2013 14:52

I hope if dog food was being wiped up, or something from on the floor, then the teatowel would be put in the washbin, no?!

wontletmesignin · 04/12/2013 14:53

No. So it knocks me sick. Knowing what the tea towel may have been used for...

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Fairylea · 04/12/2013 14:54

Oh! Sorry! I thought you meant fiancé or whatever. Haha. Oops.

SlimJiminy · 04/12/2013 14:55

Haha! I thought that too TurnOffTheTv - surely the tea towel has been used maybe for drying things after they've been washed - hands, dishes, etc. Presumably he doesn't blow his nose / wipe his arse on it. If it's a manky, scabby bit of grease-ridden fabric, I'd be worried if he was using it to dry his hands/the dishes, never mind wipe the odd knife on. How bad are we talking?

wontletmesignin · 04/12/2013 14:55

Grin i never thought of fiance haha

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quirrelquarrel · 04/12/2013 14:56

I take it you snog this man and possibly also have oral sex with him?

Grin Grin fairylea bless you

TotallyBursar · 04/12/2013 14:59

I thought things were taking a turn for a second FairyLea.

Op, yanbu. Not because of the knife wiping but because
they put the teatowls to really unhygienic uses and hang it back up no, most people (including those ok with knife wiping) would never, ever do that.
Your DF I'm afraid is a bit grim.

ViviPru · 04/12/2013 14:59

actual lolz @ fairlylea Grin

SlimJiminy · 04/12/2013 14:59

Euwwwww... no, no, no! That changes everything entirely. Sorry. You don't use a tea towel for wiping the floor / dog food!!! That really is grim!!! Tea towels are for drying wet things. It's not gross that he wipes the knife and puts it back in the drawer. It's disgusting that he wipes up dog food with the same thing that could be used to dry the dishes though!!

:D @ I take it you snog this man and possibly also have oral sex with him? Hahahahahahahahahahahaha!!!

SantasLittleLineRunner · 04/12/2013 15:01

ffs fairylea Grin

wontletmesignin · 04/12/2013 15:02

Everytime i read what fairylea wrote im lmao Grin

Oh so its not just me then. Thought i was just being over the top, as i can be at times with things like that.

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MTBMummy · 04/12/2013 15:02

I'm with the OP, I have one towel for drying dishes, and another for drying hands, anything else gets washed, I will probably reuse the bread knife and bread board through out the day, but ant more than that is just wrong and horrid

monicalewinski · 04/12/2013 15:04

Real life tears laughing at fairylea Grin Grin Grin