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Original poster

To feel really tearful after being called a black bitch

59 replies

Ghanagirl · 04/10/2013 20:18

As the titles says, was trying to reverse park and the driver behind came up really close and started beeping horn then over took winding down his window and shouting " what you doing stupid black bitch" obviously thought I was taking too long, but why resort to racial slurs I am black but not a bitch, driver was Asian in a cute little mini, it was in northwest London supposedly cool melting pot, so upsetHmm

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MrsRajeshKoothrappali · 04/10/2013 20:24

Because he's a thick, impatient wanker.

That's why.

Please don't be upset by one twatty person.

Flowers
everybodysang · 04/10/2013 20:25

crikey. You are definitely NBU to be upset. What a tosspot.

Thing is, he's clearly a total dick, so he's probably really unhappy and nobody loves him. So ner ner to him.

Poor you.

3MenAndMe · 04/10/2013 20:26

I would make a note of the car registration and report it to the police...
Now have a Brew or Wine

pigletmania · 04/10/2013 20:26

Ignore te fuckwit, he sounds god awful part of te reason as to why I am ummming and ahhhin about learning to drive again after 4 fails

gordyslovesheep · 04/10/2013 20:26

he's an ignorant twatbadger - I'm sorry he upset you have some Cake xxxx

Milkjug · 04/10/2013 20:28

I used to live in north London. As well as the ethnic melting pot, there was a sprinkling of wankers melting into the mix. Sorry you met one of them.

mrspremise · 04/10/2013 20:28

Grin at 'twatbadger',

Original poster
Ghanagirl · 04/10/2013 20:28

Thanks, don't understand why people suddenly change personality whilst driving, guess I should be thankful kids not in the car!

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neontetra · 04/10/2013 20:29

He is an utter fucking dick, and criminal to boot.

BillyBanter · 04/10/2013 20:29

Its not about you. Its about him. Be glad you aren't such an unpleasant bigoted angry vicious person.

That's not a happy way to live. Tomorrow you will have moved on from this but he'll still be an ignorant cock weasel.

NoComet · 04/10/2013 20:30

Because he's a twat and because he thinks being non white means no one will dare pull him up on being racist and sexist. It doesn't protect him from being an arsehole.

JoinYourPlayfellows · 04/10/2013 20:31

He resorted to racist slurs because he is a racist, misogynist wanker.

YANBU to feel tearful, what a horrible way to speak to another human being.

I sometimes drive around the block to avoid having to park with someone behind me, it's so stressful even if they aren't an unspeakable arsehole.

JoinYourPlayfellows · 04/10/2013 20:32

"don't understand why people suddenly change personality whilst driving"

they don't.

MairzyDoats · 04/10/2013 20:33

Ignorant arsewipe. Hope you feel better knowing that the vast majority of people would agree he's a complete dickhead.

Tavv · 04/10/2013 20:34

Agree it's about him, not you. You were unlucky enough to meet the wrong person at the wrong time.

Thanks
Preciousbane · 04/10/2013 20:36

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elcranko · 04/10/2013 20:40

YADNBU to feel upset. Agree that you should have taken his reg number and called the police. Bet that would have given him a shock, the wanker.

Curleyhazel · 04/10/2013 20:42

Grrrrrrrrrrr what a swine. Angry

Yanbu but please don't let it spoil your evening, the idiot is not worth it.

lottieandmia · 04/10/2013 20:45

You poor thing Sad you are not being unreasonable of course. He is a nasty racist. Try to forget about him - I know it's hard but his opinions are worthless.

DameEdnasBridesmaid · 04/10/2013 20:54

He is clearly a dick. Don't let him take up anymore headroom.

LondonNicki · 04/10/2013 21:06

I don't blame you for feeling awful, I would too and I'm sure you were not the only person he upset that day given the sort of person he is.... Please don't hold on to this, breath deeply and let go. Karma will take care of people who push that sort of negativity out there. :-)

AntoinetteCosway · 04/10/2013 21:11

I don't know how people think to make them say such hurtful, stupid things. Have a large glass of wine OP and forget about the bastard. Karma will get him.

MrsRajeshKoothrappali · 04/10/2013 21:13

Thanks, don't understand why people suddenly change personality whilst driving, guess I should be thankful kids not in the car!

I've been trying to find you a Dylan Moran clip.

Basically saying how if you step in someone's way on the pavement you become terribly British and step out of the way saying, 'Gosh, what a to do!!'

Whereas on the road it becomes, 'You SPUNK BUCKET!!'

Might be somewhere here:

Apologies if I've just sent you on a wild goose chase.

Grin
MavisG · 04/10/2013 21:20

How utterly horrible, I'm so sorry this happened, what a foul, racist misogynist you had the misfortune to encounter.

BratinghamPalace · 04/10/2013 21:24

The emotional violence in that is huge and I would think it will stay with you for a while. It is right that you are upset. You are not a piece of wood. If it were me I would be shaking for a while. Have a nice glass of wine and comfort yourself with some one who gets it.