Fenton 
The OP isn't banned, so she has every right to use AIBU in any way she sees fit.
The topic may not make sense to you, nor may the ramblings that follow, but that it besides the point.
I think the OP has had her answer many times but is just repeating herself. I bet she hasn't even read half the responses.
And I'm not picking on Saggy at all, I am just stating the bleedin' obvious. 