To hate being told " no worries!"

[Primadonnagirl]

I am getting increasingly irritated with casual familiarity from shop assistants/waiters etc. and before any one complains I've been in service industries for many years so am not saying I don't welcome friendliness...it's just disrespect I don't like..this includes being called " guys" when I'm with femal friend, being told its ok or " no worries" when I say I don't want a bag/ loyalty card etc..I know it's alright!!! I'm the bloody customer!! Being asked "are you sure" in response to previous reply etc.. But my biggest bug bear,instead of "can I Help you" which is lovely..is "Are you alright there?"..to that one I long to say "yes I'm fine here, but when I stand over there I go all funny"!

Thanks Back2Two and same to you..was beginning to think I'd turned into the grinch!!Incidentally, I say, incidentally a lot which I'm sure is v annoying!

Actually now you mention that I over-use the word actually a lot actually!

kks and kl?????

Please to explain Wanking (says the old gimmer with not-yet-of-texting-age DC)

Mmmmmm...wasabi peanuts...

Cava ..wasabi peanuts ..heaven! I want to dance round the tree now! Steady on..think bubbles have gone to head!

Kl = cool
KK= Okay (I think see below)
K = ?? Okay and KK = stressed okay?

Will ask DS when he returns from hanging around the streets!

Oh and

Ya beast = Wow that's great
Swear doon = I am not lying
Spit doon = I am not lying

I am getting there.....

I almost called somnolent on here a birty dastard earlier....

Not a luffly MNetter an abusive man!

someolent

Oops!

I fecking hate it when I get called Mam in a shop - I will never be old enough to be happy about be called Mam...anything else is absolutely fine, the more human the better.

Oh I say "swear doon" a lot as well, I hadn't heard it until I moved round these parts.

I don't mind 'guys' as long as its not accompanied by thumbs up gestures

And epic and awesome is getting on my tits a bit, mainly due to the regularity my 11 year old daughter uses it, but I can't says I really get annoyed by any phrases, although the words moist and gusset make me shudder a bit

I'm going to go against the grain and say YADNBU . It drives me mad too.

Oh dear, some people are being very nasty to op!!

Quit it, she is hormonal ffs!

Do people still say "no worries"? I remember saying that a lot when Neighbours was at its peak of popularity. It's so 1990's!

Feeling hormonal...why is this suddenly the MN excuse for everything?

Fanks for the txt lesson Wanking - oh, I do feel very old to be 34 weeks knocked up!

Thank you Wiaww!Its my first time on mumsnet..won't make that mistake Of ranting again!Will just quietly sip my Cava

Feeling hormonal...why is this suddenly the MN excuse for everything?

This.

You've jumped in feet first, Primadonnagirl. May I suggest you look at some of the other areas and threads? People on here can be lovely. This section is usually used when you want people to tell you that you're being a tit though, so does tend to attract the more vocal vipers members.

Peace and love

and gin? hic

Most shops etc you have to say 'can I help you' we get mystery shoppers and loss points if we don't and then get a bollocking for it so may piss u off but tough!

If OP managed to navigate her way to AIBU I'm sure she's fully aware of what this area is about and how it compares to others on the site.