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WelshMaenad · 02/09/2012 18:56

took my kids to a park we like today - it's a bit if a drive but lovely and the equipment is nicely accessible for Dd(6) who has a physical disability. When we got there there was some marching band contest, we watched for a minute but dd and DS (2) just wanted the park so we went over.

There were hoards of marching band kids ranging from 8/9 up to mid-late teens in the play park. Their behaviour was DISGUSTING. Spitting, throwing litter, older ones sat smoking on the play equipment, and all of them swearing their heads off. Now, I fucking live a good swear, but not in front if toddlers every third word. While I was watching DS (planning on getting the he'll out) dd went up to the teenage girls monopolising the basket swing and asked nicely if she could have a go. One responded "she can fuck off, I'M fucking on it!" but before I could get over there one of them lifted her on. They proceeded to mock her, try to push her off, and trample on her. I grabbed DS, retrieved her, and we left.

I did complain to a contest official as we were leaving but I was still fuming when we got home so tracked down the website of the band mist if them were in (they were in logoed t shirts) and emailed them, telling them what had happened and how appalled I was.

Unreasonable?

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Pandemoniaa · 19/09/2012 18:52

Well done! Nobody should have to tolerate this behaviour and I'm pleased to see that the band secretary has taken the matter seriously. I hope there was a veritable lake of tears at this meeting! Your dd has been very stoical about what must have been a really horrible incident.

As it happens, I'm in a performing group and it is one of the golden rules that once you put on an identifiable costume, you are an ambassador for the whole group. The younger people in it are under no illusion about how long their membership would continue if they behaved badly too.

FairhairedandFrustrated · 19/09/2012 23:57

Power to the people!!!!!!

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