Giving dh the grotty mug...

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or the plate that didn't quite come out clean from the dishwasher, or the end piece of cake that's a bit dry. Because I was annoyed at him?

It's just occurred to me that I do this a lot as a means of irritation control in an otherwise happy marriage, he probably does it too. Does everyone do it? I don't know if this is normal behaviour

ewwww why would you give someone a dirty mug that is vile

I don't do it, never really heard of people doing this tbh. It might be just you!!

I do this a bit

Ambrosius you have saved me, I was all but ready to admit my flawed character in MN public. Phew ;-)

If I drop one of the steaks on the floor, I am hardly going to give it to myself... am I?

yanbu!!

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I would rinse the steak off, but still give it to DH. He would not notice. I would.

YANBU.

Nope, I get the dry cake, the smaller bit of food etc.

If you saw the size of my arse you'd understand.

If he's pissed me off, its no cake and he can get his smegging own! No passive aggressive shoite in this hoose.

Not dirty McHappyPants just grotty, like tea stains.

yanbu

horrible bil gets the grotty mug plus the skanky bit of sugar.

Is it passive aggressive or just cowardly secretive aggressive?

Yabu. It's mean and sly behaviour and I would take a very dim view of someone who did this to me. It's like cheating at a board game.

Someone on MN once said that they hide their DHs fave t shirt when they're annoyed at him...this is similar and unheathy. Why not jus talk to him about the problems?

My SIL crumples the back of her DHs shirt he leaves out for work or slowly unpicks a button, knowing it would annoy him all day if it came off!

I just tell DP he's being an arse if he's annoying me and hog the remote!

My friend use to clean the toilet with her H toothbrush :o

that one with the toothbrush is not close to funny

wow. No, never. I always give DH, whoever I'm making tea etc for the nicest piece. Then again I'm a bit of a pushover....

Incidentally, you get tea stains out of a mug with a generous shake of bicarbonate of soda and a swipe with a damp washing up brush.

Apologies for the tangent, there.

My DH does it to himself, I always get first pick of everything and he has what's left

It is especially good for things like bacon sandwiches where I get all the lovely middle bits and he has the scraggy end bits

He even let's me have all the red and black wine gums because I won't eat the green or yellow ones

No, if he's pissed me off that much and won't fucking listen he gets no cake, tea or steak.

No, if he's pissed me off that much and won't fucking listen he gets no cake, tea or steak.

Why are my posts appearing twice tonight sorry.

adora it's your husband, he's messed up your phone and/or laptop so it posts twice. Don't give the bastard any cake

It's normal apart from the mallice behind it. My Mum always gave my Dad the not so nice food and they were happily married for 49 years until he passed away not from dodgey food.

In my marriage its usually me that gets something abit shit. But then I don't do most of the cooking.