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AIBU?

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To be a bit shocked that dh has

43 replies

Choufleur · 04/06/2012 17:17

Just ordered a vibrating cock ring?

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squaresausage · 04/06/2012 17:19

yanbu
Any consultation?

CharlieUniformNovemberTango · 04/06/2012 17:20

Well if it is completely out of the blue then no, YANBU

Choufleur · 04/06/2012 17:20

He has joked about getting one in the past - I have never felt to need to.

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CrispyCod · 04/06/2012 17:22

Would he be equally as shocked if you went out and purchased a vibrator?

Goofymum · 04/06/2012 17:23

Oooo la la!! How come you're shocked?

AngryFeet · 04/06/2012 17:23

Why shocked? They are good fun. You should see some of the weird sex toys we own Wink

squaresausage · 04/06/2012 17:23

Can he not vibrate his cockmanually, you know.... Brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrmmmmmm?

cazza40 · 04/06/2012 17:24

YABU they are great fun !

Choufleur · 04/06/2012 17:25

A vibrator could be for me to use alone though - the cock ring is apparently for us both.

Im just a bit shocked that he just bought it and now wonder if he thinks our sex life is very boring

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Catsmamma · 04/06/2012 17:25

dh mentioned there was an offer on groupon....is your dh on there too??

Choufleur · 04/06/2012 17:26

He ordered it from love honey

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scentednappyhag · 04/06/2012 17:26

I don't really see why you'd be shocked? They're for sex rather than masturbation, so can only be a good thing surely? Grin

FuckedOfftotheFarSideofFuck · 04/06/2012 17:26

ah, don't be shocked, vibrating cock rings are positively vanilla these days anyway - you can get those disposable Durex ones in Boots and Tesco etc.!

He's just curious - hope you both like it!

squaresausage · 04/06/2012 17:26

Nah Chou, it's just cos he seen a bargain on groupon probs!

scentednappyhag · 04/06/2012 17:27

Oops sorry, X posts!
I doubt he means to imply your sex life is boring- cock rings will keep him harder for longer, so maybe he just wants more of what is already a great se life for him?

thatisall · 04/06/2012 17:27

Wink you don't HAVE to use it just because he bought it.

Maybe he's just thinking it will excite you or make you happy.....trust me they are more for the female pleasure than the male.

Choufleur · 04/06/2012 17:28

Ok so I am just blander than vanilla. Do they do much for the woman - vibrate in the right place?

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thatisall · 04/06/2012 17:30

yes they do...and they well...just yes they do lol

cazza40 · 04/06/2012 17:34

Yes they can and do vibrate in the right place - give it a go ! Forgot how fun they are will go and buy one tomorrw ...

Dprince · 04/06/2012 17:34

I didn't get a cock ring on groupon today. . I got an offer for sunglasses and a pearl necklace.
hang on just going to check if pearl necklace is in The jewellery section, I might have misunderstood. :)

Choufleur · 04/06/2012 17:38

Do we need lube with it - will it chaff without?

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FoofFighter · 04/06/2012 17:39

Poundland have them in, if you can spare the blushes!

WenTheEternallySurprised · 04/06/2012 17:41

Grin @ DPrince

BobblyGussets · 04/06/2012 17:41

Poundland eh? Thanks for the tip, as it were....

McHappyPants2012 · 04/06/2012 17:42

Cockrings are great ;)

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