sex question: when you are doing it...

[MateyMooo]

what are you thinking about?

the actual thing you are doing right then and there or summat else?

The actual thing, most of the time.

What I am doing.

What are you thinking about OP....shopping lists?

England

what I am doing,but sometimes things just come into my head, like tell dp I got bread but will he get milk kind of thing, and I have to remind myself its not an appropriate time to say it out loud.
I don't think about any body else.

Mostly what I'm doing.

Occasionally I'm distracted by the need to fart.

Sometimes I was thinking about it. Mostly I used to redecorate the house, in my head.

Alan Rickman likes to pop into my head but mostly I'm focused on the task at hand...

What we are doing, with a little bit of fantasizing thrown in (e.g. that we're somewhere more glamourous or in a more titilating situation, not that dp is someone else).

Difficult to focus on a shopping list if the sex is good imho.

Actual thing right there and then.

Depends on whether or not we should have put the bins out.

Actual thing + some elaboration

Actual thing. Sometimes I fantasise about another woman being there with us or another man but DP is always in the picture.

Actual thing with elaborate fantasies of spanking dh

Normally I think about the works of Goethe or Shakespeare. Am I doing something wrong?

Not if you're a bloke and it stops you orgasming too quick

I'm definitely female, but my mind wanders, even when having a delightfully entertaining shag.

FatherHank Fautus is a pretty sexy text.

I have a historian friend who swears blind that when he was allowed to turn a page of the original text of beowulf in the British Library he got an erection. Hate to think what he thinks about during sex.

Definitely shopping lists.
Or work
Or various other things.

Must not fart
Must not fart
Must not fart

Attheendoftheday that's true, as long as you're not thinking of when Mephistopheles first appears to Faust...mmm, sexy demonic poodle

Sex type scenarios, sometimes other people.

sex scenarios, people, stuff dh has said thats dirty or just checking out dh and enjoying the moment. Definitely not shopping lists!

I usually focus on the sex itself with my bf but occasionally the mind does wander and I might picture other men or scenarios during foreplay/oral sex. During the actual sex, penetrative I mean, my mind hardly ever wanders and I'm 100% focused on him.

I think about what I'm doing, but if you don't tell me why you want to know, I might find myself wondering what else I should be thinking about. So why do you want to know?

I don't think I think about anything really. Just enjoying myself!

I don't fantasise during the act. DH is pretty cute and knows what he's doing

I'm trying to remember what I used to think about during bad sex. Probably a lot of: how many drinks have I had tonight?