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To think this is disgusting?

45 replies

DisgustedSM · 15/10/2011 16:35

Am I just being precious, or is wearing someone else's underwear just totally disgusting? (female if that makes any difference)

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squeakytoy · 15/10/2011 16:37

Depends how close the two people are, and if it is clean really..

Hullygully · 15/10/2011 16:37

ffs

valiumredhead · 15/10/2011 16:38

Depends if it's clean or not...

Hassled · 15/10/2011 16:38

I think you're being a bit precious. You'd have to know the other person pretty well, but I'd certainly let my friend borrow some clean pants should the need suddenly arise. Or borrow hers.

You do mean washed knickers, don't you? Please tell me you do.

MrsRetchingBloodAndGuts · 15/10/2011 16:39

I wouldn't wear someone elses underwear!

MrsRetchingBloodAndGuts · 15/10/2011 16:39

They'll have been up someone elses bum!

DisgustedSM · 15/10/2011 16:40

Yes washed, was my SD, and we aint "that" close!!

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AMumInScotland · 15/10/2011 16:40

Well yes the worn or unworn aspect is the important one!

ChippingInToThePumpkinLantern · 15/10/2011 16:40

Not sure if you're a genuine MNer or a spotty teenager?

But anyway... I suppose it depends on the relationship. I wouldn't do it, I'd rather go commando myself, but I know other people don't feel the same and figure if it's been washed it's fine.... each to their own.

squeakytoy · 15/10/2011 16:41

So your stepdaughter borrowed a pair of your knickers that were clean...

Hardly disgusting...

DooinMeCleanin · 15/10/2011 16:42
Hmm
ReindeerBollocks · 15/10/2011 16:42

I've worn DH's clean boxers, if that's what you meant?

But no, I doubt I'd share another woman's knickers, even clean ones. No reason behind it, just would be a bit ick.

AMumInScotland · 15/10/2011 16:43

Well if they were clean out of the drawer, and washed before returning, I don't see anything disgusting about it. Though I'd have to know someone quite well to discuss with them any reasons why I might be in need of a clean set of underwear!

SuePurblybilt · 15/10/2011 16:43

Girl in my school totally got pregnant doing that. Just saying.

BarkisIsWillin · 15/10/2011 16:43

Just don't ask for them to be returned Grin

ChippingInToThePumpkinLantern · 15/10/2011 16:43

Oh I assume that your SD just helped herself to your knickers then?? That would piss me off because I wouldn't want to wear them afterwards.

A friend needed some when she was here a while ago - I had a multipack (yes, I'm that exciting) with some new ones in which I gave her and didn't want back afterwards. I was happy to give them to her, but that's entirely different than someone helping themselves to possibly my favourites which I wouldn't then be able to wear again.

AMumInScotland · 15/10/2011 16:44

If she just helped herself out of the drawer I'd be annoyed about that aspect...

DisgustedSM · 15/10/2011 16:44

Im genuine, namechanged as its obvious who I am if she read it. She had no clean ones of her own (as she lives in a pit, and cant be bothered to put her own in the wash) so just helped herself to my nice new pair, and even wiped her make up off with them after (well it looks like she has anyway)

I would just never do that.

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valiumredhead · 15/10/2011 16:48

Oh so there's more to the story then...

nickschick · 15/10/2011 16:49

Wouldnt be too sure its makeup .......Grin.

reelingintheyears · 15/10/2011 16:51

Only if it's got skid marks in it.

usualsuspect · 15/10/2011 16:51
Hmm
DisgustedSM · 15/10/2011 16:51

Believe me im not having them back!

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reelingintheyears · 15/10/2011 16:53

And the skid marks were fresh...then i may not 'borrow' them.Grin

reelingintheyears · 15/10/2011 16:54

DS nicks DPs socks all the time...drives DP mad.

DSs feet pong and they get left in a pile under DSs bed for weeks on end because i won't go in his room.

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