To think this is disgusting?

[DisgustedSM]

Am I just being precious, or is wearing someone else's underwear just totally disgusting? (female if that makes any difference)

I dont mind socks, im used to the socks (though I do have different colour socks so I know which are mine) but I always just presumed my underwear was safe!

Saying this in a Joey from friends way...

"DisgustedSM DOESNT SHARE!!!"

YANBU It would really annoy me if someone just helped themselves without asking, no matter what it is. Wrt it being knickers, I would quite happily give someone, who asked, a new pair so long as they were a multi pack pair, the operative word being give. I couldn't share my underwear with anyone though.

Well, if they were brand new, then you know how much they are going to cost her to replace them don't you

So how old is this SD? [hhmm]

you are being hugely U - it's only a clean pair of pants - hardly smearing shit on your sofa :)

If they were clean wouldnt bother me at all.

My middle DD does this and wears my bras, it annoys the hell out of me. It doesn't disgust me, though.

People have different bounderies. If it bothers you then she shouldn't do it, unless an emergancy has happened, such as lost luggage, unexpected period etc.

I lent my MIL a pair of my expensive super control pants, £40 FFS!!! They were returned freshly laundered and she was very appreciative. Regular kecks, no way.

Strapless bras swapped and shared amongst family and friends. Doesn't make any sense to spend a fortune on a bra for one or two occasions.

Socks are fair game!

Make up could be fake tan?

Really wouldn't bother me.

Right it wouldn't bother me lending or borrowing a clean washed pair of knickers.

What your SD did would .... She would have clean knickers if she put them in the wash. She took a brand new item of corking from you without asking which is fucking rude. What if next time you have a new dress/ bag / shoes?
She should have asked.

Well, I've lent out my spanx to a good friend before, but they are crotchless so maybe avoids the issue?

Seriously, no problem as long as they are returned clean. One of my friends is currently on holiday with my swimsuit. Again, as long as it's washed I don't see the problem.

Cant see the point of knickers myself never wear any.

when me and my best friend had a flat we always knicked each others underwear, washed of course.

My other friend never wears knickers so its not a problem.

Me, well i would just feel naked and couldnt possibly.

FFS Fabby get thee to M&S, it's gonna be icesicals in a few days .

Nah, i'd share undies no probs........wouldnt share my toothbrush tho [hhmm]

at SuePurblyBilt

I still stand as thus

any one of you lot could borrow a pair of kecks from me if in need, help yourselves

but if you stole my nice shiny new kecks fresh out the packet because you were too much of a filthly slattern to wash your own, than I am afraid I would be inclined to shit in your slippers