ok, background: have known this man for 20 years, never had a relationship or even any drunken fumbles when younger. I would class him as one of my very closest friends, we say each other regularly and email / chat often.
DH and he get on ok - but very different so not really friends if you see what I mean. DH is generally happier for me to see friend on my own.
He's recently lost a parent and split up with his long term girlfriend, so I'm a bit worried about him.
DH will be working away during the week, returning at weekends so I've arranged for my friend to come visit and because of the distance he'll need to stay over. We now have a young DD and so it's difficult for me to go out in the evening as I would have done pre-baby.
My DH thinks this is 'inappropriate' my response was 'how dare you tell me who I can or can't see'.
So am I being unreasonable?