To think DP's nickname for me is really disrespectful?

[QueenofHeartz]

DP calls me his little cum-bucket. I didn't mind at first because I didn't realise what it meant (I thought he was saying come-bucket although I realise that doesn't make sense) but he's saying it outside of the home too which is even worse. I saw him writing a text to his mate who we're going out with at the weekend and he refered to me as "cb". He denies it was short for cum-bucket but refused to say what else it could mean!

AIBU?? It makes me cringe.

@ peoplecallmetricky

liking the term wanksplash....how about you give him that as a new pet name?

and use it in public obviously. all the time.

Ah, just spotted the z

Call him little dick

He'll soon stop

the z? meaning what?

I dont think I believe this!

omg , i'm no prude honestly but i would seriously smack him in the face for telling his mates he called me that!!! maybe as a joke in the bedroom or something but good god no way outside it!

If its true, its really unbelievable and totally disrespectful to you. I suggest you start calling him the turkey baster in retaliation.

WTF????

YANBU

Bear in mind that he probably thinks its a bit of a joke and doesn't realise how offensive you find it. I think you need to have a chat.

well no one could say you are being unreasonable - that is outrageous! i'd tell him to grow up, get a life and show some respect

Are you serious?! No no no. What is he then? Drippin' Dick?!

And you are posting to ask if you are being unreasonable???

YABU. It is clearly a harmless term for your cavernous vagina. Bless him.

Hang onto him OP, you've got a real catch there.

at Chickens. If this is real, then yes, it is horrible.

eurgh.

just had to check the calendar, it's not Tuesday is it?

your new name for him is "my little pocket dildo". try it out today, see what response you get (it wont be a good one i guarantee)

Can you imaging the convo sitting in the pub

Get me a pint my little cum bucket
Ok pet, do you want a packet of scampi fries with that you wanksplash

Obviously dont say it if you are in a family pub.

Start referring to him as dick-cheese in front of his mates.

Tell him to stop.

I would prefer it if you called him something more affectionate than the otehr suggestions. My suggestion would be "my darling spunk trumpet".

Righto.

Yuck calling you that to his friends, just had a horrible thought what if that's what he has always called you to them but only just started using it to your face