I genuinely don't know if IAMBU here, so all thoughts welcome...
I was out walking DDog today with DS (7 months) in his back carrier when my mobile goes. It's DH, who is round at my parents' house as my dad has phoned our house. Dad's had an accident and I need to get there straight away (luckily they only live 5 mins from ours and I hadn't walked far). I get there and find my Dad in absolute agony with what is clearly a dislocated shoulder (the deformity was obvious). He'd tripped and fallen in the garden. My mum was at work (Dad's retired) so he'd phoned our house. He was in shock, grey and clammy, and in unbearable pain. Naturally, we phoned 999 for an ambulance. We were told that as it wasn't a "life threatening injury" an ambulance wouldn't be sent out and we would have to get him to A&E ourselves. If we didn't have our own transport, a "non-emergency ambulance" (ie the minibuses they send out for little old ladies to go to the chiropodist in) would be sent in approximately 2-4 hours' time. So we had to virtually carry my Dad to our car between us and drive him to hospital, with him groaning in pain.
I was fuming - my Dad was in agony, and paramedics would've been able to give him morphine (which the dr did as soon as we got there). Plus, I was worried the injury wasn't stable, and putting him in the car to drive to hospital might do more damage. Added to this the fact that luckily DH wasn't working today - if he had been, I would have had to somehow get my Dad in the car by myself, then get him and DS out at the other end. So I'm thinking of complaining and saying an ambulance should have been sent. Opinions please?