This isn't as fruity as it sounds: I used to host foreign language students in my home - I was paid for it. Two students who stayed here at the same time - one Japanese, one Italian - have agreed to meet here ie in my city. The trip has been instigated by the japanese student and I invited her to of course stay at mine: I don't expect to be paid - it's only a few days, she's doing a big tour of europe. Now the italian student has agreed to meet her here but has not contacted me to say he is coming. I don't know if he has found his own accomm or is assuming he can stay at mine? If the latter, I'm a bit pissed off tbh.
Should I have extended the invitation when I knew he was meeting japanese girl here, or should he have emailed me to ask?