To think 'Smile TV' is for sad pathetic perv's?

[seeminglyso]

I have only seen this channel once but I think its slutty looking women waving their arses in the air and men ring up and have them talk dirty to them. This morning I woke up and put my baby on the sofa and went to tune Cbeebies on whilst preparing our breakfast. I pressed 'previous channel' and lo and behold this channel came up..can only assume that hubby has been watching this and having a tommy tank on the sly. I am fuming and feel he is a right sleezy perv as I find this stuff totally degrading and unacceptable..aibu..or are all men just programmed pervs .. I am so gutted..should I be?

I don't think all men are pervs no.

Why do assume that your husband has been watching it? Our tv switches onto random channels.

nope ours doesnt switch to random channels this was the #previous channel' button so he had been watching it.

what channel number is it? I should have a look before commenting.

You have a previous channel button on your remote control?

I wouldn't say all men are pervs, no. Then again I wouldn't call all of the women on the channel sluts or victims.

its only on for like 3 hours isnt it?

I find them quite amusing people desperately trying to look sexy humping invisible air and the the camera the eye lol.

I would ask your husband before I assume anything. My husband often stops on that channel, mostly to poke fun of it. And because he likes looking at sexy women. ::shrugs:: Whatever.

No, man does not automatically equal perv. And those women are not forced to be on that channel. And may even be well paid, although I have no idea if they are.

Come op you were checking up on him really.

Not sure why you would be bothered if he dide ham a tommy tank unless you wanted him last night and he could not be bothered.

Yes my husband is claiming he was 'skipping trough the channels' but both of us know that he was watching it and he knows he has been caught out. I am just wanting to know if other ladies would be bothered by this?

MrSpoc..I dont mind him having a wank but wanking off to this stuff in my opinion is quite sleezy

why are you bothered Op?

I agree with MrSpoc's question. What, exactly, bothers you about it?

I am bothered because its tacky and is mild porn, I dont believe my husband should be watching it. I am strongly against porn and my husband is well aware of this. I thought he was a bit more sophisticated than to be watching this trash and getting a stiffy out of it...puts me right off!

its natural for males and females to get turned on by other people. Not sure why you think your husband is too sophisticated than everyone else. But you now know he is a normal red blooded male

Most men really aren't that sophisticated, we just pretend we are to get a shag sometimes.

What would you prefer him to knock one out to? An arty french film?

What would you rather he was wanking over?

Has he no imagination..this stuff is tacky and the women are portrayed as totally submissive..

Well forgive me for believing there was more to mens sexuality than just meat..for example intimacy and an emotional context...

RobF - Ha Ha I can see them both getting off on Pans Labrinth.

Seriously op sometimes men just need to have a hamshank is notv better that he could do it in the comfort of his own home to some tits on a screen then hold it all in a get frustrated?? (yes it is just tits on a screen nothing more we dont care what the actress likes or dislikes)

seeminglyso - there is more to us and when we are with you/wives then there is nothing better then intimacy and emotional context but its hard to get that when your on your own having a wank.

Women's sexuality is not so different, most women have to knock one off as well..doesnt mean I would cream my pants off watching some tacky shit like this... why do we think it is just 'acceptable' for men to watch porn? Why have we allowed this to happen?

Buy him 'Betty Blue' on DVD, along with a box of 'sensitive' tissues infused with aloe vera, and tell him you'd rather he used that than these perverted channels.

If you have chance please read this article...

www.guardian.co.uk/world/2003/nov/08/gender.weekend7

thank you or allowing it seeminglyso.

Alot of women I know enjoy porn or reading porn. Can i ask what you think about when you have the urge???

He may have been having a laugh at it? its pretty pathetic stuff not like hardcore

Just read it and its all aload of sexist bollocks.

So everyone who watches porn sees women as objetcs and cannot turn it off?

I am one of the most loving men you could come across. I do everything to please me wife and give her everything both emotionally and in riches (as much as i can afford). I do not see her as a wank bank infact when she went off sex after the birth of our DC i never pushed her and just had quite wanks.

Is this thread a secret bash at porn?