To think 'Smile TV' is for sad pathetic perv's?

[seeminglyso]

I have only seen this channel once but I think its slutty looking women waving their arses in the air and men ring up and have them talk dirty to them. This morning I woke up and put my baby on the sofa and went to tune Cbeebies on whilst preparing our breakfast. I pressed 'previous channel' and lo and behold this channel came up..can only assume that hubby has been watching this and having a tommy tank on the sly. I am fuming and feel he is a right sleezy perv as I find this stuff totally degrading and unacceptable..aibu..or are all men just programmed pervs .. I am so gutted..should I be?

seeminglyso, where have you pasted that from. Was your original post just an excuse to paste that further down the thread?

Pornography does all those things, yes. But there are plenty of things that are the female equivalent, that peddle falsehoods about men and give women unrealistic expectations of relationships that are very unlikely to ever be fulfilled, leaving women bitter at men and the world because they think all the good men are denied to them, when in fact, they simply don't exist as they imagine them.

Haughty chuckle...its all pretty degrading though in my eyes..hardcore or not.

yes RobF..fairytales do all that...but my husband isnt wanking off to those at the moment so I would rather stick to the matter in hand (pardon the pun)

No its not a 'secret' bash at porn..its a very overt one.

If I recall correctly, women are more mentally stimulated and men are more visually stimulated.

To expect a man to view sex the same way as a woman is ridiculous. We are very differently sexually.

Whilst you may have issues with the porn industry in general, that does not make a man a sleaze for becoming aroused and having a wank at the image of sexy women. That makes him a normal, human male. Men also more easily separate sex and love as different things, than women (in general), so it is no reflection on his feelings for you op.

And if you thing I'm gonna read that mahoosive post you have got another thing coming.

MrSpoc..I think this line sums you up so well

''I do not see her as a wank bank infact when she went off sex after the birth of our DC i never pushed her and just had quite wanks.''

Oh arent you the loving husband, how very considerate of you not to force her to have sex with you and just have quiet wanks. (note spelling of quiet).

Op serious question, so what do you wank off too?

seeminglyso - What i really do not get what you are trying to make. By your reconing, because I am a slease who watches pron that when my wife went of sex I should of been pestering her and forcing hor to undertake crude acts. My point was infact the oppersite. I understood and gave her the space and time until she was ready. Not that hard to understand.

Also very childish to pick up on peoples spelling. did it make you feel better? How sad of you Op.

I didnt say it wasnt degrading

but he genuinely may have been browsing assunibg all men creep off to wank is a bit sexist, but i dont know ur DH

So was this an excuse to post all that?

So he was watching a bit of very soft porn - there are worse crimes you know!

Also, some channels turn into others after a certain time, so he may have been looking at a different channel.

ah I think they do all creep off to wank to be fair, some are open about it some are not.

No MrSpoc I just want to know if other women find this acceptable or not. We have established that you think its fine to watch this and wank off to it, thanks for your contribution. You do think I am being unreasonable, but being a bloke, I kind of assumed that would be your default position on the issue of porn anyway.

Surprise him one day when he comes through the door by being bent over in a skimpy pair of pants, looking over your shoulder and gesturing with your hand and mouthing 'call me', see if he finds that sexy.

I think this thread is an excuse for the OP to publish her book one post at a time.

Well I am a woman and it wouldn't bother me

No the long post was because I couldnt get the link to work..its just if anyone wanted to be arsed reading it, I found it quite interesting..I didnt realise I needed an 'excuse' to post on here?!

RobF..perhaps I should.. :-)

Shakiasma, so you dont mind your husband wanking off to porn/mild porn then? Can you explain to me why as I find it all so seedy

If you accept that your husband needs to wank occasionally, what would you prefer him to do it over?

Well surely he could think something up that is more interesting than this? At least then there might be some context to it rather than just 'a nice bit of arse'

Because I am totally secure in our relationship. Everybody has a wan now and again. Women are much more able to shut their eyes and let their imagination wander. Men find it easier with sexual images in front of their eyes.

As I said earlier, having issues with the porn industry is all very well and good. But that does not make a man, or a woman for that matter, a per because they get turned on at the sight of sexual images. It's normal!

Seeminglyso, perhaps you should suggest he uses something a little less overt; school teachers, nuns or similar?

seeminglyso your poor husband!

ha ha seeminglyso your the one who i find to be narrow minded. God help your husband.

I'm reporting the thread. You just majorly broke copyright and could get MN into major major trouble.

Is that long post not even her own work then?