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Original poster

To not be outed in RL

50 replies

spiderslegs · 09/04/2011 19:40

Fuck me. I have. And am now afeared.

Arse.

Really. It was a combatitive thread an' all.

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hairfullofsnakes · 09/04/2011 19:41

What?! Where?!

washnomore · 09/04/2011 19:45

Aw dear.

laInfanta · 09/04/2011 19:46

Is it by someone who actually knows you? Or are you famous or something?

GypsyMoth · 09/04/2011 19:47

an MNers worst nightmare come true....is it by someone who will make life hell spiider!!

ladyintheradiator · 09/04/2011 19:49

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Lavitabellissima · 09/04/2011 19:51

Poor spider Sad

btw I think you sound fun, I too can be a bit loud, and a glass of Wine Grin

Lavitabellissima · 09/04/2011 19:52

that's like a glass of Wine Confused

blondebutonlyfaking · 09/04/2011 19:53

Awh spiders.

I have a stalker. A RL person who I see regularly and they stalk me over the boards til i post something that is vaguely identifiable and then they talk to me about it the next time they see me
Tis most annoying and now I can't post stuff that I could do with support over iyswim.

washnomore · 09/04/2011 19:54

blonde why don't you just namechange?

RevoltingPeasant · 09/04/2011 19:54

How did it happen? Are you sure?

I would give you a hug but I'm scared of spiders Confused

blondebutonlyfaking · 09/04/2011 19:58

Wash - I have. And again. And again. And again.

it gets very draining.

And I have some shit going on that I would love to offload but she would figure out who I was and then it would be gossipped.

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spiderslegs · 09/04/2011 20:09

Yes - am completely sure - the whole thing came to a head because of my post 'which was distinctively like my FB posts' apparently.

& 'tis true, fuck you, you little detectives....

I am, completely, out.

Arse.

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spiderslegs · 09/04/2011 20:10

Thanks Lavit

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spiderslegs · 09/04/2011 20:14

There are 15 million women in the UK our age - really thought I was safe & anonymous here.

Will have to namee-change.

& change posting style.

Apparently.

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littlepigshavebigears · 09/04/2011 20:16

blondeShock

have you tried telling her to fuck off?

LDNmummy · 09/04/2011 20:18

But won't she see this too and get the hump blonde? Or is that the intended effect, so instead of getting the hump, maybe she will get the hint Wink Grin

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spiderslegs · 09/04/2011 20:18

Blonde - can you not namechange? Or tell her to bugger off??

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blondebutonlyfaking · 09/04/2011 20:20

Awh folks, I've only had this username for a couple of weeks.

I just namechange.

And namechange.

And I don't post anything too identifiable and change details.

But oh Spiders I know how it feels and it sucks.

HotCrossChocolateBunny · 09/04/2011 20:22

I'd be telling them both to fuck the fuck off, and then when they get there, to fuck off some more.

It makes them seem like they have feck all going on in their own tiny miserable lives.

Easterfeaster · 09/04/2011 20:31

You were really unlucky. 15 million is a lot of people. Name change for Easter, you might win chocolate. And from now on post the opposite of what you think, that should work.

"I love my neighbours, they always invite me to their parties although my husband and I have nothing to say for ourselves and are completely teetotal."

I dread being outed, and if anyone in RL starts talking about something i've had a rant about on here, usually fb, I get paranoid, because people are always asking why I'm not on it. Mainly because I like it here better. Smile

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spiderslegs · 09/04/2011 20:43

Easter & hotcross ,

Having though about it - I WILL NOT NAMECHANE.

& I Love it when fuck is used as verb, adjetive & noun.

The Fuckig fuckers fucked & fuck the fuck off, and then when they get there, to fuck off some more.

Aaand breath,,,,,,,,,,,,

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Easterfeaster · 09/04/2011 20:54

Could change to spidersfuckinglegs Grin

LostInTransmogrification · 09/04/2011 21:02

Spiders, you should start an AIBU thread asking if you are unreasonable to be thoroughly fucked off by someone in rl stalking you on here. Then we can all pile in and tear them a new one and hopefully you will get some peace!

Leverkusen · 09/04/2011 21:07

It's dead pathetic, they should admit to who they are.
I change my name all the time. I have been on here for 5 years, and I feel like I 'know' everyone, but no one knows me because I namechange a lot as I am often outed by one stalker.

It's so annoying. I think this is the longest time I have had one name!

pinkytheshrinky · 09/04/2011 21:11

I have a stalker in RL as well and I have had to name change several times to avoid her. She also copies dresses i buy too and is my mini me...... fucking weirdo