To not be outed in RL

[spiderslegs]

Fuck me. I have. And am now afeared.

Arse.

Really. It was a combatitive thread an' all.

Sorry but can I be dim as a newbie and ask what RL is!!

real life. None of us spend much time there unless we can help it. If you don't know about it you'll fit right in here.

Ha ha georgimama.

did my post get deleted?? I only want to know what RL is!

(Hi spiders, don't change your name )

RL = real life (heaven's sake!)

So spiderslegs, how did the 'outing' occur? Did somebody in RL send you an email, did you get a personal email (whatever it is called) from MN? Just curious...

BTW - you sound fun to me. Maybe party host feels you would take away too much attention from her.

No - MCos.

I posted this thread, then someone in RL, read it, recognised the dilemma, cross refernced - then SPOKE to someone in RL & asked if I ever posted here.....

My Style, on other threads was, aligned to my FB &, apparently, unmistakable.....

& mCos - I am fun.

As is DH,

They asked me, to me face ....??????

& no- Bollocks to the name-change

What did you say when they asked you spiders?

I fessed up ZigZag what else couod I have done?

ZigZag

Oh dear! I'm always scared that DP will get curious and read some of my posts!

Be scared - I always thought I was safe in my anonymity - apparently not......

Spiders and Blonde, don't change to a new namw - swap with each other. Then periodically swap back and forth. Twill confuse the stalkers and if anything is said - if you are loathe to explain in full and frank detail why anonymity is important- you can claim it pertains to "Blonde when she was using my name" or "Spider must have said that when she was being me".

Or you could give the stalkers/outers the sharp edge of your tongue (my preferred option) if you are robust enough it won't happen again.

P.S. fb is not real life...

I actually like the person in RL that outed me.

Am just flummoxed that it happened.

She really is a secret squirrel investigative genius.....

So did you not get their MN name spiders?

If not, you'll have to bring the subject up and beat it out of them ask them?

No - but I will - ask nicely or beat the shit out of them until they tell me-

That's the irritating thing - I am no longer incognito

But they are.

As long as you you speak as you find on here, and don't talk about very personal stuff, I really don't think the world will care. That's my view anyway.

But I like to talk about personal stuff.

That's the point innit??

I'd name change if it were me. You deserve to have your privacy. I have had a few different names here too, just in case I want to rant about anyone from rl.

My problem is my life is very distinctive to anyone who knows me, and I have to change details or the stalker twigs. And then she twigs eventually and says "oh have you changed your name are you blondebutonlyfaking it now? Why did you say xyz happened when it didn't happen like that it happened like this abc"

And I've only changed the details to try to throw her off the scent in the first place.

GRRRRRRRRRRRRR