Dp having 'lads' night downstairs....

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...whilst I'm upstairs with the laptop keeping an ear out on baby.

Was a tad miffed when dp told me late last night that he had arranged a night in with the lads. I don't mind him having his fun but he knows i dont socialize with his friends and it was too late for me to make arrangements for an evening for myself and little one.

so here I am. bored. stuck upstairs for the evening. Part of me feels like a mug.

Yabu.

Just organise your own night out another day and leave the baby with him.

Simples

good plan! :D

Can't you go out? He's there 'having a lads night' surely he can listen out for the baby as well.

"I don't socialise with his friends" does sound a bit unreasonable to me. Surely he's entitled to have his friends round to his home, same as anyone else?

You could pop down and try being friendly.

It's not unusual! My kids used to do that and I would sit upstairs with my computer, shame about the notice period though.

Do some online shopping and show him he has had to pay for you to sit upstairs!

What's wrong with his friends?

YABU. It sounds like a nice evening for him.

You're not stuck upstairs, you've chosen to stay there.

Sounds awful being trapped in your own house, even if there are things you can do up there.

You'll have to go down and join them, sit there watching tv and being sober

Why don't you socialise with his friends?

Why dont you "socialise with his friends"... ??

sounds a bit stand offish to me...

He could have given you more warning though.

I actually talk to my Husband's friends more than he does...being the Gob that I am like

Actually I'd be annoyed if he only sprung it on your last night, ask him if he can give you a bit more notice another time so you can make plans

Mutz - you sound exactly like me!!! Reeeespect

or, ring your mates up, get them round, and turn it into a party

He knows I don't socialise with his friends.

Re-arrange these words to form a famous phrase - from stick your remove arse the.

How strange. DH's friends are all mine now.

YABU. You have chosen to sit upstairs.

Ooh I'd go and crash the party, and take advantage of my husband's hospitality, I'd have him making cocktails within minutes.

Most his friends rely on me for new filthy jokes too, so I'd be obliged.

Send them upstairs and you sit in the lounge - sorted.

Mutz - you sound exactly like me!!! Reeeespect

Gimme some skin there!

yabu

it's his home, his friends should be welcome there.

Forgive me mutz i have been watching ali g in the house lol

Yabu..sorry love! you should be down stairs 'cramping' his style

YABU. You are free to leave the house, or socialize downstairs or stay upstairs in a grump. If you are 'stuck' it is no ones fault but yours.

Are you normally this miserable ? You sound completely above yourself. Whats wrong with his friends?
My dh's friends are lovely.