update is police have been and broken the window in the back door ,he was stuck in the bath but dont know ifhe has had a stroke or something ,he has ben taken to hospital now. as for dd,s partner he has been told by employment people he his firm havent gone through the right procedures and are taking on his case,but that dosent actually help this situation at the moment.I have been in touch with dd,s dad who is in Ireland [ dd dosent know this }to see how he can help !