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Is ending the triple lock to fund a care service fair....

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mids2019 · 29/09/2026 08:14

To me this is actually not a hugely left wing proposal as middle classes with occupational and private pensions will not notice the reduced increases in state pension significantly.

However poorer pensioners with little other pension provision may be impacted a lot to essentially fund a care service that will be disprotioanrly help the middle classes as their life expectancy is greater.

Is it fair that our poorest pensioners get less to support a care service which would mean a millionaire pensioner would not nèed to sell their assets to access it?

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Constantrunner · Today 07:26

Even the poorest pensioners pay towards home care. Most people end up with home carers. Few go into a home.

RedNerd · Today 07:28

Katypp · Today 07:07

Understanding? We understand. I have three children, youngest 19, so they are right in the thick of it.
However I have also seen enough over the years to realise every generation has its struggles, it's not unique to today's young people.
I might be more inclined to show 'understanding' if you didn't brush aside OUR struggles as if they are irrelevant. I don't suppose you have given any thought to what it was like to see your mortgage payment hike up literally every month because you are not interested in anyone's life but your own.
My first house was £30,000 and i earned £6k and my ex £8k so a joint salary of £14k. That house is currently up for sale for £115k so you would need a joint salary of £56k on the same multiple today.
Buying a house is completely doable today if you are prepared to buy a smaller house in a cheap area initially. But many aren't.
We don't all live in London and the SE, which has always been a problem in my lifetime. The problem is young people are being brainwashed into thinking they can't afford a house and the attitude is taking hold. Being a victim is so prevelent nowadays - we all need to snap out of it!

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If your youngest is 19 I’m really surprised you appear so hostile towards anyone that says the older generation have had it easier. Of course it’s not as black and white as that and all generations have their difficulties but like for like, unless something drastically changes this generation are pretty much the forgotten generation. If you’ve got a 19 year I can’t understand how you can’t see that. I’ve not rift but have seen a few of your posts and you seen really frustrated but surely you can see from your sons pov that it’s highly unlikely there will even be a state pension when he gets to 70 and that’s the context of this thread, the Tripple lock!

Differentforgirls · Today 07:38

RedNerd · Today 07:18

Well fantastic for you son but do you think that’s the norm? Obviously it’s absolutely not!

Maybe not the salary but the house purchasing is.

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RedNerd · Today 07:52

Differentforgirls · Today 07:38

Maybe not the salary but the house purchasing is.

So enlighten us how he done all on his own if he moved out at 18 and got a full time job? Rents are sky high so how did he manage to save for a deposit?

Badbadbunny · Today 07:59

Differentforgirls · Today 04:51

My son didn’t go and earns £97.5k and bought his first home 7 years ago when he was 23.

Anecdote isn’t data.

Badbadbunny · Today 08:04

Differentforgirls · Today 07:38

Maybe not the salary but the house purchasing is.

You need a £20k deposit and a salary of £40-£45k to buy a basic one bed flat in my son’s work city. £200k is basically the minimum price of basic flats. Not many youngsters will be on that kind of wage nor have managed to save a £20k deposit plus more for fees and furniture etc.

The cheaper flats are over 55 restricted.

Badbadbunny · Today 08:04

RedNerd · Today 07:52

So enlighten us how he done all on his own if he moved out at 18 and got a full time job? Rents are sky high so how did he manage to save for a deposit?

Almost certainly bank of Mum and Dad.

RedNerd · Today 08:08

Badbadbunny · Today 08:04

Almost certainly bank of Mum and Dad.

Absolutely! I suspect he lived at home (rent free or minimal contribution) until he was 23 then saved for 5 years to get the deposit. The problem is that’s not available to everyone and living at home isn’t an option so he might have bought his house at 23 but his circumstances allowed for it so lucky him

Differentforgirls · Today 08:08

RedNerd · Today 07:52

So enlighten us how he done all on his own if he moved out at 18 and got a full time job? Rents are sky high so how did he manage to save for a deposit?

He didn't move out at 18. My post clearly said 23.

Differentforgirls · Today 08:09

Badbadbunny · Today 08:04

Almost certainly bank of Mum and Dad.

Wrong. He earns more than you!

Differentforgirls · Today 08:10

Badbadbunny · Today 08:04

You need a £20k deposit and a salary of £40-£45k to buy a basic one bed flat in my son’s work city. £200k is basically the minimum price of basic flats. Not many youngsters will be on that kind of wage nor have managed to save a £20k deposit plus more for fees and furniture etc.

The cheaper flats are over 55 restricted.

His house deposit was 10k. He paid half, as did his partner.

Differentforgirls · Today 08:11

Badbadbunny · Today 08:04

You need a £20k deposit and a salary of £40-£45k to buy a basic one bed flat in my son’s work city. £200k is basically the minimum price of basic flats. Not many youngsters will be on that kind of wage nor have managed to save a £20k deposit plus more for fees and furniture etc.

The cheaper flats are over 55 restricted.

Anecdote isn't data.

Differentforgirls · Today 08:12

RedNerd · Today 08:08

Absolutely! I suspect he lived at home (rent free or minimal contribution) until he was 23 then saved for 5 years to get the deposit. The problem is that’s not available to everyone and living at home isn’t an option so he might have bought his house at 23 but his circumstances allowed for it so lucky him

Most of his friends did the same.

EasternStandard · Today 08:20

Differentforgirls · Today 08:09

Wrong. He earns more than you!

Which sector is it?

RedNerd · Today 08:21

Differentforgirls · Today 08:12

Most of his friends did the same.

and that’s great but they’ve had help. They’ve not been able to be independent from 18 and get a house, they’ve needed supportive parents in order to save for a deposit and that’s the point, back in the day they would have been able to do it on their own.

You’ve also got to remember whilst your sons friends dome similar they will have had lovely supportive parents too but that’s not available for everyone by any means

Differentforgirls · Today 08:21

EasternStandard · Today 08:20

Which sector is it?

LG. Chief Accountant. CIPFA.

Differentforgirls · Today 08:22

RedNerd · Today 08:21

and that’s great but they’ve had help. They’ve not been able to be independent from 18 and get a house, they’ve needed supportive parents in order to save for a deposit and that’s the point, back in the day they would have been able to do it on their own.

You’ve also got to remember whilst your sons friends dome similar they will have had lovely supportive parents too but that’s not available for everyone by any means

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I don't know why you keep saying 18. Remember Uni is free in Scotland. So no debt.

EasternStandard · Today 08:22

Differentforgirls · Today 08:21

LG. Chief Accountant. CIPFA.

Did you mean he didn’t go to university earlier? I just saw ‘he didn’t go’ but maybe you meant something else.

He stayed at home, whilst studying?

RedNerd · Today 08:23

Differentforgirls · Today 08:08

He didn't move out at 18. My post clearly said 23.

I know and that’s the point, he needed to stay at home to save!! You sound lovely but sadly not all parents are able or willing to help

LathkillDale · Today 08:23

Constantrunner · Today 07:26

Even the poorest pensioners pay towards home care. Most people end up with home carers. Few go into a home.

Statistically 1 in 5 men over the age of 65 go into a care home and for women it’s 36%, or over 1 in 3, because women live longer. While I agree the majority don’t, it’s not my idea of a few either?

Differentforgirls · Today 08:24

EasternStandard · Today 08:22

Did you mean he didn’t go to university earlier? I just saw ‘he didn’t go’ but maybe you meant something else.

He stayed at home, whilst studying?

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He didn't go. He got a trainee accountants post and the LA paid for his exams while he worked FT.

EasternStandard · Today 08:25

Differentforgirls · Today 08:24

He didn't go. He got a trainee accountants post and the LA paid for his exams while he worked FT.

Fair enough. Nothing wrong with that, sounds like it worked out very well for him.

Differentforgirls · Today 08:28

EasternStandard · Today 08:25

Fair enough. Nothing wrong with that, sounds like it worked out very well for him.

It did. He was seriously ill in fifth year and couldn't sit his highers. Worked out better. He got all the Scottish and UK wide CIPFA prizes and then the big promotion.

RedNerd · Today 08:34

Differentforgirls · Today 08:28

It did. He was seriously ill in fifth year and couldn't sit his highers. Worked out better. He got all the Scottish and UK wide CIPFA prizes and then the big promotion.

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Your son has done amazing to be on such a high salary. He’s made good choices and had to make sacrifices (like living with you’s his parents longer than he’d probably want - no offence 🤣) as he could see the bigger picture. He’s in the minority though as even getting on to any kind of scheme like he has is so difficult so it’s testament to him but there was probably 500 applicants and he nailed. There doesn’t seem to be as many opportunities these days but that’s what they need to create more schemes like this so others can flourish

Pepperlee · Today 08:38

Badbadbunny · Yesterday 23:20

Most lost their homes due to losing their jobs not the very short period of high interest rates.

No they didn't.