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What are you up to today if you have a Chronic Illness. Thread 11 🧵Last of the Summer

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MewithME · 21/08/2026 18:20

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Oioiqueen · 03/09/2026 19:41

I love hearing everyone ancestry. Mine is rather boring and is Irish on one side and English quite far back on the other.

TeaAndStrumpets · 03/09/2026 21:12

danglethedingle · 03/09/2026 19:19

I have a half sister from my Dad's second (or maybe third?) marriage, she is well into family history. I did the DNA test to help her try to find my Dad's birth father, he was a war baby, and born in a mother and baby home, and later adopted. Any way, she got quite a long way, and managed to narrow it down to one of two brothers. She also identified a cousin of both of ours, so definitely Dad's side, that was not connected to any other bits of the family she had tracked down.

Long story short, the cousin asked her to please stop digging as his gran was still alive, and it turned out it wasn't just us that didn't know exactly who our grandad was, but the cousin's certainly wasn't the man his gran had married!

It didn't bother my sister or I at all, in fact we were a bit surprised not to have found some more half siblings or cousins. Our Dad had a bit of a reputation himself, and a lot of babies happened in the war from people grabbing at happiness while they still could. But the cousin was quite horrified, so she stopped.

Yes careful what you wish for! It's definitely the thrill of the chase.

FuzzyPuffling · 03/09/2026 21:24

I have my family tree back to 1190. I think we might have come over as Normans. Sorry!
English through and through now, though.

TeaAndStrumpets · 03/09/2026 21:30

Oioiqueen · 03/09/2026 19:41

I love hearing everyone ancestry. Mine is rather boring and is Irish on one side and English quite far back on the other.

One of my Irish gggrandmothers was bound over to keep the peace because she had got violent in a land dispute with her estranged husband. They were fighting over an area of peat bog.

One of DH's English ancestors was a leading Primitive Methodist who had 18 children.

They say opposites attract 😂

Oioiqueen · 03/09/2026 21:39

TeaAndStrumpets · 03/09/2026 21:30

One of my Irish gggrandmothers was bound over to keep the peace because she had got violent in a land dispute with her estranged husband. They were fighting over an area of peat bog.

One of DH's English ancestors was a leading Primitive Methodist who had 18 children.

They say opposites attract 😂

That all sounds really amusing. Obviously not to your ancestors but in the modern day it is.

My Irish grandad came over to England to avoid being called up to the army. He dropped his Irish accent and I remember seeing him as a child not realising he was Irish. I imagine my English side must of come from Scandinavia at some point which would explain the ginger gene I possess.

FuzzyPuffling · 04/09/2026 10:13

In today's news, I have made soup.

martha79 · 04/09/2026 10:26

FuzzyPuffling · 04/09/2026 10:13

In today's news, I have made soup.

It does feel like soup weather today.

I've been out for a short walk to post a friend's birthday card and done online yoga - lots of hip stuff today which was unpleasant but needed.

Don't know what else to do today. I've been listening to the "What did the Normans ever do for us" programmes on BBC Sounds - very interesting especially the food one.

FuzzyPuffling · 04/09/2026 10:39

Hurrah for the Normans, @martha79 . Although i do not identify as French.

Soup means easy and healthy lunch for the next 4 days. Also clears the ageing veg out of the fridge so I can clean it. Mr Tesco is coming tomorrow!

TeaAndStrumpets · 04/09/2026 11:03

FuzzyPuffling · 04/09/2026 10:39

Hurrah for the Normans, @martha79 . Although i do not identify as French.

Soup means easy and healthy lunch for the next 4 days. Also clears the ageing veg out of the fridge so I can clean it. Mr Tesco is coming tomorrow!

I love a good fridge soup!

MewithME · 04/09/2026 12:52

Hello all. Sorry I've been MIA. The back to work gloom descended. I'll check in over the weekend.

I think menopause is kicking me. Feel flat and not sleeping well at all.

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TeaAndStrumpets · 04/09/2026 13:45

MewithME · 04/09/2026 12:52

Hello all. Sorry I've been MIA. The back to work gloom descended. I'll check in over the weekend.

I think menopause is kicking me. Feel flat and not sleeping well at all.

Nice you are back , take it easy!

martha79 · 04/09/2026 14:24

Hugs to you @MewithME, I hope the gloom clears off.

Got a stream of people viewing the empty flats here this afternoon so finding it a bit hard to relax with the sound of them all going in and out, but popped out earlier and had a nice chat with the woman showing them round (who works for the landlords). Fingers crossed for someone nice and quiet!

CoffeeBeansGalore · 04/09/2026 18:15

@MewithME hope you have a lovely chilled out weekend which makes the gloom disappear.
At work don't let the buggers get you down.

danglethedingle · 04/09/2026 18:34

Had a nice Friday after waking up with a headache and a pretty low mood. DH said lets go out for lunch, so I got a nice lasagna and salad, and then bought a rose bush that was reduced because its label had fallen off. So I don't know what its called, but its a lovely deep velvety purple\pink and smells divine.

I'm fairly sure its not a climber, so its going to go in a large dark blue planter I've got spare, and I'm going to put some bulbs underneath it for early spring before it blooms. Thats my Saturday sorted out, as long as it stays dry long enough.

Swanhilde · 05/09/2026 09:45

Hello, hello, hello 🤗

I went into a complete crash after returning from holiday with my parents. Fab time, but completely overdid things. Spent 4 days in bed to prepare for going back to work last Tuesday 😬

Three days at work was then exhausting. But yesterday I rested again and went for my deep tissue sports massage. She has worked a miracle! Put my legs and hips back together and overall reduced my tension. Mobility much better and headache has gone this morning 🥳

I'm not tempting fate though and will have a complete rest day today 😴

@MewithME you'll be disappointed to hear that my weekly work pattern has now changed to Weds - Friday, so no more Weds weekend klaxon I'm afraid. I have again been temporarily promoted but am job sharing with a lovely colleague so am happy it is manageable 😊

And finally I declare the magic kettle boiling ☕☕☕💕

MewithME · 05/09/2026 09:56

Well that is disappointing news @Swanhilde 😆

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MewithME · 05/09/2026 09:56

I'll have another coffee @Swanhilde thanks 🙏🏻

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MewithME · 05/09/2026 09:57

And congrats on the promotion ...

Can't seem to put an articulate post together this morning. Need coffee ☕ 😉

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TodayIsabetterone · 05/09/2026 09:59

Hello Hello 👋 @Swanhilde lovely to see you back and pleased the massage has worked its magic! Coffee over here please ☕️ I’m normally a decaf tea but coffee very much needed today!!

MewithME · 05/09/2026 10:35

...so I was planning a trundle to the garden centre and a spot of lunch with DS.... But it seems I have to bury a dead wood pigeon first. Next door came round this week and apologised for their sonic weapon....but then asked to switch it on and checked I couldn't hear it. Found a poorly pigeon huddled next to the back door yesterday. Opened the blind this morning and it died! 😭

Hoping it's coincidence with the scarer device

Of all the uses of my energy budget.... burying a pidge was not in my plan for today

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martha79 · 05/09/2026 10:58

Morning all. Oh no @MewithME, not what you need.

Lovely to see you @Swanhilde, earl grey for me please (if anyone else is an earl grey fan, I got the selection below this week, all very nice so far).

Was awake early to a beautiful sunrise mixed with dark rainy storm clouds. Back to sleep for a bit, housework done, now considering a walk to the charity shops and a new cafe that's just opened this morning.

Doing an online 'mini retreat' this afternoon and tomorrow about self-compassion, should be interesting.

Had a message from my GP surgery yesterday inviting me to a 'local weight loss programme' - which I do definitely need but I suspect would be very generic and not take LC into account.

Have booked my flu vaccine for a few weeks time - had to pay for it and I'm seriously considering paying for the COVID one too, whilst being a bit annoyed that we don't get it free.

What are you up to today if you have a Chronic Illness. Thread 11 🧵Last of the Summer
TeaAndStrumpets · 05/09/2026 11:00

Hello @Swanhilde great to have you back!

Sympathies on the hip problem, my left hip joint is giving me problems with shooting sciatica pain. My lower back is locked up so I can't wait for the osteopath in a couple of weeks.

I've been in a long crash for ages it is so frustrating and depressing, just can't seem to get myself into an accepting frame of mind. Hey ho.

I read an article about new CfsME research and my conclusion was yes my body is messed up, tell me something I don't know....but at least it is confirming it's not imaginary! No cure though. Maybe one day.

I have been trying not to do much this week, hence my muscles are seizing up (you can't win!) I just changed the bathroom towels and found four live moths and several expired ones on a cotton hand towel in the airing cupboard. Expletives deleted, ladies 😯

So yes please to a nice peppermint tea !

MewithME · 05/09/2026 11:20

I'm just back from burying the poor bird and I'm now shaking and in tears. There was a cat in the garden and I stood in it's bloody poo. Then the only bit of border where I can dig was absolutely riddled with roots and stones. I really struggled to do it. I got the shakes and HR was 160. 😭

I am totally pissed off that I've had to spent my energy on this. I bloody hate it. Something totally random and stupid and that's ruined my day.

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JewelleryCat · 05/09/2026 11:51

I’m so sorry @MewithME 💐

martha79 · 05/09/2026 11:52

🤗 @MewithME, what a horrible experience all round.

Hope you can keep the moths at bay @TeaAndStrumpets

Tried to go to the shops but was very wobbly so just did my loop round the block instead. Ho hum.