Not quite sure why I'm posting, partly for advice, partly for sympathy! I've had migraines since I was a teenager, generally only for a day or two before my period, later in my 30s also mid-cycle/ovulation time. I'm 44 now and they've now spiralled out of control and what was only 1-2 days is now 7-10 days 2x per month and I'm just in agony. Many days I manage to grit my teeth and work through but it's really affecting my quality of life, ability to parent, ability to be a spouse. I do all of the right things (good sleep, no caffeine, no alcohol, no overmedication, etc.) so I am feeling quite desperate.
I'm under the care of a neurologist who started me on candesartan which worked for a bit but is now inadequate and I couldn't tolerate high doses. Same for amitryptilline. I've been put forward for Botox but that can't start for two months due to holiday schedules. I have been considering Topirimate in the meantime but neurologist says that should also have a good trial of at least 6 months before we decide whether it works. The CGRP inhibitors will not be offered until I've tried everything else. The neurologist said the pattern of headaches fits with peri-menopause but I am absolutely at the end of my rope and can't imagine living this way (or this getting worse??) for several more years.
Suppose I"m looking for a handhold and to know whether anyone else has been through this. Also any wisdom around taking topirimate versus botox? They are supposed to be about equally effective, but I am just hoping to get it right this time. (It's already been 8 months trying to get the candesartan doseage correct).
Thank you 