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Does this woman have no decency??

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somanychristmaslights · 29/05/2026 18:22

I really thought I believed in letting women do whatever they want to and trying to see things from their point of view. But I just can’t understand Bonnie Blue for her “baby shower” plans… https://www.facebook.com/share/r/1DHqdeB6ed/?mibextid=wwXIfr

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BoredZelda · 31/05/2026 13:30

Whyohwhy321 · 29/05/2026 19:36

None of us know that she's mentally unwell. She's a product of our vacuous times. She's the living, breathing embodiment of the pornification of society.

Oh give over.

Empress13 · 31/05/2026 13:43

And I’ll say it again what if the tables were turned and it was Bobby Blue doing these depraved acts to women and young girls ??? Bet there would be total outrage !!

Whyohwhy321 · 31/05/2026 13:44

BoredZelda · 31/05/2026 13:30

Oh give over.

Oh, OK. Your dazzling insight and soaring intellect has convinced me.

StartingFreshFor2026 · 31/05/2026 13:51

Empress13 · 31/05/2026 13:43

And I’ll say it again what if the tables were turned and it was Bobby Blue doing these depraved acts to women and young girls ??? Bet there would be total outrage !!

Actually, perhaps a better question would be, would there be any kind of significant market for a sex content event that was '400 women to urinate on and then use sex toys on one bloke'. There'd be significant media attention and widespread criticism because it would be so unusual (and still perverse), but hardly anyone would pay to watch it, those who paid to watch it would almost certainly still be mostly male, and they would seriously struggle to find 400 non-professional/unpaid women to do it.

AlternateLook · 31/05/2026 13:55

Whyohwhy321 · 31/05/2026 13:44

Oh, OK. Your dazzling insight and soaring intellect has convinced me.

The vast majority of people don't watch porn, certainly not this kind of extreme material. I don't think society's being 'pornified' as you put it. Billions of people have other, healthier interests.

RollOnSunshine · 31/05/2026 14:05

The best thing for that child is getting taken away from her mum and not being told who she is. A very sad situation.

😥

LarksAscending · 31/05/2026 14:11

NoCommentingFromNowOn · 29/05/2026 18:51

Going by her past exploits, I’m assuming most of these will be young. If they turn into better adults, they will look back on this and it’ll cause them MH problems too. How many are going along because their friends are and they don’t want to lose their friends or status? In 20 years they could be completely different people, fathers of young women themselves.

Who is in charge? Does she have a manager or something?

Men willing to do it at 18 or 80 just don’t think like that. They’ll be fine and still won’t care when they’re older.

LarksAscending · 31/05/2026 14:13

I don’t think she’s mentally unwell. I think she’s naturally psychopathic (ie doesn’t feel the same feelings as others like guilt or fear) and just wants the money… she will continue to do things like this until she’s hit a set number of money in the bank. Then she will vanish into the ether (a very expensive private community somewhere) and raise her child in total luxury never to be heard from again.

NovemberMorn · 31/05/2026 14:16

StartingFreshFor2026 · 31/05/2026 13:28

This particular problem was perpetuated by 1 woman and the 400 men who are going to be unpaid content co-creators (the supply), and it is caused by the thousands of men who will buy the content to watch (the demand).

Supplying the demand is still morally bankrupt but that one woman is not the cause of this.

There are not "plenty" of women who enjoy extreme or degrading pornography. There just aren't. Who gets arrested / convicted for the supply, distribution or possession of any kind of illegal extreme pornography?

Obviously neither of us knows how many women watch and enjoy extreme porn. Many women do enjoy watching porn though, with or without their partners.
No one is arguing that men are the main customers, but when a woman advertises herself in the way she does, it's a knocking bet that all the scum will come out of the woodwork, no matter how extreme the acts she is offering. So one woman can have thousands of willing sleazebags lining up....just as she does.

Those men are disgusting; she is disgusting. My opininion is most men are not, most women are not....that is my point.

likelysuspect · 31/05/2026 14:22

70isaLimitNotaTarget · 31/05/2026 11:48

She (Bonnie Blue) said she couldn't go out because she feared something like an acid attack.
So unless she plans to live somewhere that she is not recognised then she will always have the fear of attack.

Maybe when she has her baby and she looks at her millions of pounds that she has amassed she'll think my life needs to take a step down
She will probably go onto filming other people and make their films , like the schoolclass set up she did , choosing Legal Age but deliberately young teens .
Because she recognises a market for underage stars but wants to keep on the right side of the law .

Probably wise to look out for retribution then

That is potentially something that the authorities would look at in terms of Child Protection procedures, unless she has a safety plan in place which is taken seriously (although it sounds like there is, which is that she doesnt go out), the child is therefore at risk. Although as others have said, there might not be a child.

PeoplesNet · 31/05/2026 14:32

Whyohwhy321 · 29/05/2026 18:26

I'm not clicking on the link. I've got zero interest in it. I know little about her but what I do know is that thousands of men lined up to have sex with her, one after another. I think most of them chose to wear a mask. That's the part that horrifies me beyond belief. Thousands of men versus one woman.

I have no issue with her doing what she wants with her body and same for men. I just hope she asked to see their faces to ensure no family members snuck in 😬

VeneziaJ · 31/05/2026 15:19

I cant help thinking that she was once a tiny baby! and it makes me so sad that she has done this to herself

SproutingBee · 31/05/2026 15:33

NovemberMorn · 31/05/2026 12:48

The men who are queueing up to perform vile acts ARE shameful, as is she for organising and 'starring' in these disgusting acts...the ones behind the scenes filming, her mother who is beneath contempt...they are all guilty of acting like animals, with no decency for themselves and others.
However, branding all men, as some have done, is wrong. Countless men are decent and as disgusted with this as you and I are; It's ridiculous to brand all with the same brush. Plenty women do disgusting things, millions dont.

Show me the men, search histories included, and I’ll happily grovel at their feet.

ScartlettSole · 31/05/2026 15:36

PolkaDotPorridge · 29/05/2026 19:07

I think she’s perfectly sane. She’s just incredibly greedy and has absolutely no morals. I really hope social services are watching her very carefully. That child deserves better.

Exactly this. I'm not buying the "not well" nonsense. She's attention and money grabbing with zero morals self respect or decency.
As for the men, they are beyond vile. And worse, they know how disgusting they are which is why they hide their faces.
I don't agree with Gilead but the lot of them need sent to the wall 😅

SproutingBee · 31/05/2026 15:39

StartingFreshFor2026 · 31/05/2026 12:02

Extreme pornography including gang bangs, humiliation, urination, any reference to children and deliberate "barely legal" categories should be made illegal. There's an argument that all pornography should be made illegal but I'm not sure that's realistic. There is no need for extreme content, it is degrading and warps people's minds about what is normal - the line of normalised sex just continues to shift the more exposure society has to extreme pornography. No one should make money off this poisonous crap. Individual choices between consenting adults? Usually a different matter. Capitalising on the degradation of women and the extreme uses of women's bodies for the pleasure of men? No. Wrong. Choice can never be unlimited where it impacts on other people.

Bonnie Blue is both a victim and a perpetrator of rampant, uncontrolled capitalism and misogyny dressed up as "choice" feminism.

The global pornography industry makes over £100b a year. It’s going nowhere unfortunately. It’s propping governments up.

Pornhub have been so upset by their age verification laws (and having to remove 80% of their content because they couldn’t prove it wasn’t rape or CSAM) that they’ve got Apple to validate ages at device. This will be with a view to eventually remove verification at site so they can get their underage customers (or adults who don’t want to validate to a third party company) back. It’s big business. The people at the helm are (fully clothed, rich) men.

TreacleMoon · 31/05/2026 16:07

What a silly, stupid girl.
She doesn't want to sexualise her baby?
So what is this about then?
Well, money isn't it, but if you're willing to put an unborn child at risk then social services must get involved with this one, she's putting that poor baby at risk by having sex with anyone willing.

StartingFreshFor2026 · 31/05/2026 16:47

SproutingBee · 31/05/2026 15:39

The global pornography industry makes over £100b a year. It’s going nowhere unfortunately. It’s propping governments up.

Pornhub have been so upset by their age verification laws (and having to remove 80% of their content because they couldn’t prove it wasn’t rape or CSAM) that they’ve got Apple to validate ages at device. This will be with a view to eventually remove verification at site so they can get their underage customers (or adults who don’t want to validate to a third party company) back. It’s big business. The people at the helm are (fully clothed, rich) men.

It's terrible.

70isaLimitNotaTarget · 31/05/2026 20:10

TreacleMoon · 31/05/2026 16:07

What a silly, stupid girl.
She doesn't want to sexualise her baby?
So what is this about then?
Well, money isn't it, but if you're willing to put an unborn child at risk then social services must get involved with this one, she's putting that poor baby at risk by having sex with anyone willing.

I don't think it's as much about sexualising her baby as keeping herself current .
Lily Philips did a 101 Men, Bonnie Blue had to do more , 1000 (she claimed she got to 1054 or something )
Bonnie Blue targeted new students at University (if they;d be filmed ) then it was ^bring your Dads , I;ll do both )
She was banned from IIRC Australia and from Only Fans . (the BB Petting Zoo thing )
Any publicity is good publicity for her , she has to stay in the public eye .

She is quite tragic really .

Dollysleftnip · 31/05/2026 22:07

VeneziaJ · 31/05/2026 15:19

I cant help thinking that she was once a tiny baby! and it makes me so sad that she has done this to herself

Yes, but she was her mothers tiny baby and her mother is there advocating all of this
My reaction if anybody wanted to do half the things this girl‘s done to my daughter is you’d better go and get a shovel cause he’ll be going in a hole and he won’t be the one he’s hoping for

MintyPig1989 · 31/05/2026 22:33

Dollysleftnip · 31/05/2026 22:07

Yes, but she was her mothers tiny baby and her mother is there advocating all of this
My reaction if anybody wanted to do half the things this girl‘s done to my daughter is you’d better go and get a shovel cause he’ll be going in a hole and he won’t be the one he’s hoping for

I'm not sure who I find more disgusting. BB or her mum? How could anyone stand by and see her daughter do all this? Is the money really that important? Vile.

underthehawthorntree · 31/05/2026 22:38

It makes me feel panicky for the child. All I want to do is protect my children...and yet here is a child who is being brought into the world in such depraved and disturbing circumstances. Who will have this footage available for the rest of its life. And who will be raised by this woman- a person who is so obsessed with money and fame that she will do literally anything (including exploiting her unborn child). It really does make me feel frightened.

JillyComeLately · 31/05/2026 22:45

SproutingBee · 31/05/2026 15:33

Show me the men, search histories included, and I’ll happily grovel at their feet.

I think you would be doing a lot of grovelling if anyone took you up on your offer.
It must be sad to go through life hating and mistrusting the male half of the population.

PyongyangKipperbang · 31/05/2026 22:56

JillyComeLately · 31/05/2026 22:45

I think you would be doing a lot of grovelling if anyone took you up on your offer.
It must be sad to go through life hating and mistrusting the male half of the population.

Speaking purely for myself, I am not sad about it and frankly I find it the best way to survive.

JillyComeLately · 31/05/2026 23:02

PyongyangKipperbang · 31/05/2026 22:56

Speaking purely for myself, I am not sad about it and frankly I find it the best way to survive.

That's fine, living without a man in your life can be great, I know several women who neither want or need a man, that's different to hating and mistrustung them though.

PyongyangKipperbang · 31/05/2026 23:13

JillyComeLately · 31/05/2026 23:02

That's fine, living without a man in your life can be great, I know several women who neither want or need a man, that's different to hating and mistrustung them though.

I do both.