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Does this woman have no decency??

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somanychristmaslights · 29/05/2026 18:22

I really thought I believed in letting women do whatever they want to and trying to see things from their point of view. But I just can’t understand Bonnie Blue for her “baby shower” plans… https://www.facebook.com/share/r/1DHqdeB6ed/?mibextid=wwXIfr

OP posts:
JillyComeLately · 30/05/2026 23:02

SproutingBee · 30/05/2026 08:40

How sure are you?

After 50 years, very sure.
Maybe concentrate on your own relationships, if you have any.
Tarring every man with the same brush makes you seem bitter.

likelysuspect · 31/05/2026 09:22

CanterThroughChaos · 30/05/2026 21:47

Her documentary made me so sad. She’s being used and encouraged down this path by complete leeches including her own family who are cashing in from her. She’s being used has no friends, couldn’t go out and is isolated and alone. If you compare it to lily philips parents on the Stacey Dooley documentary who said they would sell their house and give lily all of the money to stop her doing what she’s doing be because they love her it’s a stark contrast. I think it’s tragic 😔

Wheres the documentary?

Are you saying she is being kept prisoner?

likelysuspect · 31/05/2026 09:25

Superhansrantowindsor · 30/05/2026 22:42

Just when you think society canst sink any lower….
I hate the people who think this is ok - men and women. Everyone involved is disgusting. If this is true then the baby absolutely should be removed. How can someone love money so much they’d do this?

Have you found anyone who thinks its ok?

Soberinthecity · 31/05/2026 09:48

Notmyreality · 30/05/2026 18:52

This

💯 agree. Women holding up the patriarchy is what disgusts me.

StartingFreshFor2026 · 31/05/2026 10:31

Soberinthecity · 31/05/2026 09:48

💯 agree. Women holding up the patriarchy is what disgusts me.

I definitely do NOT wish AIDS on her like the previous poster, or think her baby will be removed at birth by social care or anything else.

That said, I think sometimes it's women like Bonnie Blue that are holding up the patriarchy themselves. Choice "feminism" has so much to answer for. There's an interview between Bonnie Blue and Andrew Tate which reveals so much. Not every choice a woman makes is inherently a feminist one, some of them degrade and threaten us all.

Superhansrantowindsor · 31/05/2026 10:32

likelysuspect · 31/05/2026 09:25

Have you found anyone who thinks its ok?

No I haven’t. But clearly there are men who think it is ok. Similarly her mother thinks it’s ok.

likelysuspect · 31/05/2026 10:45

Superhansrantowindsor · 31/05/2026 10:32

No I haven’t. But clearly there are men who think it is ok. Similarly her mother thinks it’s ok.

Well they're the people involved, I was more asking about wider society/people on this thread.

I doubt anyone thinks its ok. Its an extreme anomaly. Its not really representative of anything.

likelysuspect · 31/05/2026 10:46

CanterThroughChaos · 31/05/2026 10:43

https://www.channel4.com/programmes/1000-men-and-me-the-bonnie-blue-story

your second question has gone wildly off piste, please don’t make things up to fit your own point of view

You sound combative for no reason. You said, she couldnt go out and is isolated. I simply asked if she was being kept prisoner, is this what you mean or not?

CanterThroughChaos · 31/05/2026 10:57

likelysuspect · 31/05/2026 10:46

You sound combative for no reason. You said, she couldnt go out and is isolated. I simply asked if she was being kept prisoner, is this what you mean or not?

No you’re not just asking innocent questions. Is it likely anyone would leave out the fact someone was being kept prisoner. You are being goady and I’m not here for it. Reply if you must but I’m not interested in entertaining this and won’t respond any further

likelysuspect · 31/05/2026 11:00

CanterThroughChaos · 31/05/2026 10:57

No you’re not just asking innocent questions. Is it likely anyone would leave out the fact someone was being kept prisoner. You are being goady and I’m not here for it. Reply if you must but I’m not interested in entertaining this and won’t respond any further

What a strange response. Im not being goady at all, and have no idea what you mean by 'my point of view'. It read as if she was being exploited aka being kept prisoner. I only know of this woman what Ive read on here. I havent seen the documentary.

As far as I know this is a chat discussion where people ask questions and give information.

Soberinthecity · 31/05/2026 11:07

StartingFreshFor2026 · 31/05/2026 10:31

I definitely do NOT wish AIDS on her like the previous poster, or think her baby will be removed at birth by social care or anything else.

That said, I think sometimes it's women like Bonnie Blue that are holding up the patriarchy themselves. Choice "feminism" has so much to answer for. There's an interview between Bonnie Blue and Andrew Tate which reveals so much. Not every choice a woman makes is inherently a feminist one, some of them degrade and threaten us all.

yes the OP & BB both are, is what I’m saying. I think there are much much deeper issues at large here with BB, though. That women on here are dismissing her as vile, Money grabbing & revolting while ignoring what’s happening around her and the wider picture is really telling.

70isaLimitNotaTarget · 31/05/2026 11:48

likelysuspect · 31/05/2026 09:22

Wheres the documentary?

Are you saying she is being kept prisoner?

She (Bonnie Blue) said she couldn't go out because she feared something like an acid attack.
So unless she plans to live somewhere that she is not recognised then she will always have the fear of attack.

Maybe when she has her baby and she looks at her millions of pounds that she has amassed she'll think my life needs to take a step down
She will probably go onto filming other people and make their films , like the schoolclass set up she did , choosing Legal Age but deliberately young teens .
Because she recognises a market for underage stars but wants to keep on the right side of the law .

Probably wise to look out for retribution then

Empress13 · 31/05/2026 12:01

Soberinthecity · 31/05/2026 11:07

yes the OP & BB both are, is what I’m saying. I think there are much much deeper issues at large here with BB, though. That women on here are dismissing her as vile, Money grabbing & revolting while ignoring what’s happening around her and the wider picture is really telling.

So you think It’s OK for a baby to be brought up by a mother who has shagged thousands of men and let them piss on her whilst said baby was in her stomach ? God help you ! I stand by my post that I hope the baby is removed. as for bigger things going on she knows full well what she’s doing she has given interviews that she won’t stop until she has done the most unbelievably shocking things and she’s earning shit loads for the privilege. Some of those participants were boys FFS how would you be feeling if BB were a man and doing it to women/young girls ? I’m guessing your reply would be very different ! that poor child

Dontlletmedownbruce · 31/05/2026 12:01

AlexStocks · 30/05/2026 21:48

It's bizarre to me that she gets the flack when men line up to bone her. I don't find her the problem, but rather the men who make her famous.

Ah yes women are always victims and should never take responsibility for their own actions.

StartingFreshFor2026 · 31/05/2026 12:02

Extreme pornography including gang bangs, humiliation, urination, any reference to children and deliberate "barely legal" categories should be made illegal. There's an argument that all pornography should be made illegal but I'm not sure that's realistic. There is no need for extreme content, it is degrading and warps people's minds about what is normal - the line of normalised sex just continues to shift the more exposure society has to extreme pornography. No one should make money off this poisonous crap. Individual choices between consenting adults? Usually a different matter. Capitalising on the degradation of women and the extreme uses of women's bodies for the pleasure of men? No. Wrong. Choice can never be unlimited where it impacts on other people.

Bonnie Blue is both a victim and a perpetrator of rampant, uncontrolled capitalism and misogyny dressed up as "choice" feminism.

MintyPig1989 · 31/05/2026 12:09

Where is it all going to end I wonder? Each event has to get more and more extreme? A queue of men for her to give blowies to whilst she's in the throws of labour? 🤬🤢🤮Ewwww 🤮

ImDoingItImDoingDoubleDenim · 31/05/2026 12:21

AlexStocks · 30/05/2026 21:48

It's bizarre to me that she gets the flack when men line up to bone her. I don't find her the problem, but rather the men who make her famous.

Why do people keep jumping on to say this like they’re saying something new?

there’s condemnation for these men all over this thread and in every discussion about her.

It’s a given. And it’s discussed at length. The men are disgusting. The whole thing is.

But just because there is a demand for something, doesn’t mean you are exonerated for providing it, just because the demand is there.

I don’t understand how that suddenly makes it ok.

The men are disgusting. She is disgusting.

It’s not mutually exclusive.

Menaregreat · 31/05/2026 12:24

Whyohwhy321 · 29/05/2026 18:26

I'm not clicking on the link. I've got zero interest in it. I know little about her but what I do know is that thousands of men lined up to have sex with her, one after another. I think most of them chose to wear a mask. That's the part that horrifies me beyond belief. Thousands of men versus one woman.

Thousand of men against her? You got to be kidding me. She is spreading her legs for these men , willingly, openly, and in hope of making money. Yet you try to shame men. Put the blame where it belongs on her shoulders.

70isaLimitNotaTarget · 31/05/2026 12:26

MintyPig1989 · 31/05/2026 12:09

Where is it all going to end I wonder? Each event has to get more and more extreme? A queue of men for her to give blowies to whilst she's in the throws of labour? 🤬🤢🤮Ewwww 🤮

Don't you be giving her ideas now Wink

Bonnie Blue BJ Marathon Behind the Green Drapes ( if she thinks I better not lose my USP in chilbirth , I'll have an Elective Caesareans and they can all wear gowns (open at the front) and masks for authenticity and anonymity

StartingFreshFor2026 · 31/05/2026 12:32

@Menaregreat don't "shame men"? - obviously you are being sarcastic.

NovemberMorn · 31/05/2026 12:48

Menaregreat · 31/05/2026 12:24

Thousand of men against her? You got to be kidding me. She is spreading her legs for these men , willingly, openly, and in hope of making money. Yet you try to shame men. Put the blame where it belongs on her shoulders.

The men who are queueing up to perform vile acts ARE shameful, as is she for organising and 'starring' in these disgusting acts...the ones behind the scenes filming, her mother who is beneath contempt...they are all guilty of acting like animals, with no decency for themselves and others.
However, branding all men, as some have done, is wrong. Countless men are decent and as disgusted with this as you and I are; It's ridiculous to brand all with the same brush. Plenty women do disgusting things, millions dont.

StartingFreshFor2026 · 31/05/2026 13:09

NovemberMorn · 31/05/2026 12:48

The men who are queueing up to perform vile acts ARE shameful, as is she for organising and 'starring' in these disgusting acts...the ones behind the scenes filming, her mother who is beneath contempt...they are all guilty of acting like animals, with no decency for themselves and others.
However, branding all men, as some have done, is wrong. Countless men are decent and as disgusted with this as you and I are; It's ridiculous to brand all with the same brush. Plenty women do disgusting things, millions dont.

But you have to admit that this is a problem particularly caused by men, in a patriarchial society, to fulfil male desires.

If men all evaporated off the world tomorrow, I'm sure we'd continue to have many social ills but extreme pornography and degrading sexual content would all but disappear.

I'm not sure we need the NAMALT.

NovemberMorn · 31/05/2026 13:19

StartingFreshFor2026 · 31/05/2026 13:09

But you have to admit that this is a problem particularly caused by men, in a patriarchial society, to fulfil male desires.

If men all evaporated off the world tomorrow, I'm sure we'd continue to have many social ills but extreme pornography and degrading sexual content would all but disappear.

I'm not sure we need the NAMALT.

This particular problem, the point of this thread, was caused by a woman.
Plenty of women enjoy extreme pornography and degrading sexual content too.

More men than women no doubt, and I certainly don't excuse the men who act like pigs and either brag of it or are hypocrital about it...but the constant putting down of all men on this forum, the 'check your husband/son/brother isn't a perv' type comments that some love to throw around, is way over the top.

It may be the same few man haters who post these constant comments, but it does no one any favours.

StartingFreshFor2026 · 31/05/2026 13:28

NovemberMorn · 31/05/2026 13:19

This particular problem, the point of this thread, was caused by a woman.
Plenty of women enjoy extreme pornography and degrading sexual content too.

More men than women no doubt, and I certainly don't excuse the men who act like pigs and either brag of it or are hypocrital about it...but the constant putting down of all men on this forum, the 'check your husband/son/brother isn't a perv' type comments that some love to throw around, is way over the top.

It may be the same few man haters who post these constant comments, but it does no one any favours.

This particular problem was perpetuated by 1 woman and the 400 men who are going to be unpaid content co-creators (the supply), and it is caused by the thousands of men who will buy the content to watch (the demand).

Supplying the demand is still morally bankrupt but that one woman is not the cause of this.

There are not "plenty" of women who enjoy extreme or degrading pornography. There just aren't. Who gets arrested / convicted for the supply, distribution or possession of any kind of illegal extreme pornography?