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Would you class this family as average, comfortable or well off?

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Greyorcream · 15/05/2026 11:47

Curious what people would class as “well off” these days?

Couple in late 30s with 2 dc (late primary/early secondary age). Not in London.
Partner A earns £52k and Partner B earns £74k. So fairly average wage. Neither majorly stressful roles. Both work full time. Home by 5 each evening. Both can wfh 2 days a week.

Both get annual bonuses of around 8% and usually salary increases of about 4% each year.

Mortgage outstanding is £339k on a house worth around £500k (5-bedroom house).

Pension contributions (employee + employer combined):

  • Partner A: 17% (this will be increasing)
  • Partner B: 21%

Savings:
usually save a third of income each month.

  • £130k joint savings
  • £40k saved separately for the dc.

No inheritance or family help received. No loans, car finance, credit card debt or student loans.
No childcare or private school costs.
Lifestyle-wise, usually one big family holiday a year plus a couple of weekends away.

Would you consider this comfortably well off, average, affluent, or something else? Genuinely interested as perceptions seem wildly different depending on area and social circle.

OP posts:
Arlanymor · 19/05/2026 14:14

Greyorcream · 19/05/2026 14:13

Got confused with the quoted comments my apologies.

Fair enough, apology accepted.

Allisnotlost1 · 19/05/2026 14:55

Greyorcream · 19/05/2026 12:46

Nasty and harsh are two very different things!

I agree, that was my point (it’s also the pp’s username). Did you think I was being nasty to you?

dh280125 · 21/05/2026 18:53

affluent

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BlackeyedSusan · 21/05/2026 19:46

Well off. Very well off compared to most. You live around people like you so you don't notice the contrast to what many earn, live like.

AmIEnough · 24/05/2026 10:42

I’m guessing you must live up north somewhere because you would not get a house with five bedrooms for £500,000 in the Southeast. I’d say you were very well off.

PeppyRoseBeaker · 10/06/2026 12:50

Is this person you 😂

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