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Help me find my engagement ring

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Imamumgetmeoutofhere · 26/03/2026 19:17

Im absolutely devastated.

I can’t find my engagement ring anywhere. I’ve got my wedding ring (which is a plain white gold band) but cannot find the engagement ring. It wouldn’t be of any value really, white gold 1/4 carat diamond, but I’ve informed local jewellers and those kind of shops that buy and sell second hand jewellery.

I only take it off if I’m making meatballs / cooking with raw meats, or doing my nails but I cannot even remember taking it off so where it has gone is a real mystery.

I’ve got ring holders at all sinks in the house and by my bed and it’s not in any of them. It’s not in any coat pocket, or in my handbag.

Photo of a very similar one from the website where my husband had it designed from.

Any other ideas of where I should be looking? No matter how silly they sound, I’ll look anywhere.

Thank you

Help me find my engagement ring
OP posts:
FionnulaTheCooler · 26/03/2026 19:20

Have you had gloves on recently, could it have got pulled off when you took it off and still be inside?

Imamumgetmeoutofhere · 26/03/2026 19:29

@FionnulaTheCoolernope, just went and pulled my gloves out of my work bag and it’s not there 😭

OP posts:
page17 · 26/03/2026 19:30

Fallen in the bin? My husband lost his ring there once.

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Spaghettion · 26/03/2026 19:37

I took mine off recently when I was cooking and lost it.. I found it in the bin, check there.

Graceyfields · 26/03/2026 19:37

Apron pocket

nomoretwisters · 26/03/2026 19:40

My dad lost his behind the radiator where the hand towel was hanging (washed his hands after the toilet and must of fallen off whilst drying his hands)

FIFIBEBE · 26/03/2026 19:40

I recently found mine after losing it for three years. It was in a box under my bed but right in the very middle. It’s a divan bed and never moved. Worth a look?

thejadefish · 26/03/2026 19:43

Is it a loosely fitting one? I once lost my wedding ring & found it 6 months later in my daughter's toy box it must have slid off my hand - I'd just washed my hands and they were still wet when she called me into her room and lost it then. Friend of mine found hers in the freezer behind the peas - she'd been rummaging around in the freezer and it came off without her realising it had gone at the time - took a few weeks to find it because who would look in the freezer?! Hope you find it x

Moen · 26/03/2026 19:44

Pray to St Anthony!

Buscobel · 26/03/2026 19:45

Stuck in a shoe or boot?

CarrotSeeds · 26/03/2026 19:58

Dressing gown pocket? That’s where I found my watch recently after a frenzied, hour long search of the house. 😱

CrispsAndCake · 26/03/2026 19:59

Check the sleeves and inside any clothing you've worn incase it's caught on a thread. Also any childs clothing if you have helped them get ready.

Turn lights off and shine a torch around , see if it will pick up the diamond.

Check under the ring dishes , might have slipped.

Hope you find it.

eggandonion · 26/03/2026 20:00

Ask any small kids...I hid my mother's purse in a saucepan but nobody asked me if I'd seen it.
Under a pile of paper work or magazines?
Ask St Anthony is always good.

VimFuego101 · 26/03/2026 20:12

do you ever use washing up/ gardening gloves?

TheSlantedOwl · 26/03/2026 20:17

My husband found his in the freezer!

Also makes sense to look all around where your nail stuff is/where you do your nails, and around the cooking area.

igotbills · 26/03/2026 20:18

Found mine got caught in the rubber thing of the washing machine. I had put it in my trouser pocket and forgot before putting them in the wash

SparklyCrow · 26/03/2026 20:20

Try the washing machine. Mine"s slipped off a couple of times when loading clothes.

Myoldbear · 26/03/2026 20:23

In a meatball, if you've made them recently.

When did you last see it?

If recently, retrace in your mind where you've been since, and how you behave in each situation.

Could it be in the bed? Somehow came off as you slept?

loobylou10 · 26/03/2026 20:53

Washing machine.

SnugglyJumpersMakeItBetter · 26/03/2026 20:57

It's a horrible feeling losing something, especially when it's precious. Have you taken the sofa apart in case it slipped down the side of the seat cushions? Maybe in the Ubend of the kitchen sink? Have you got a tiddler who may have found it ad been playing with it?

Starbri8 · 26/03/2026 21:10

page17 · 26/03/2026 19:30

Fallen in the bin? My husband lost his ring there once.

My husband managed it twice !

JudyP · 26/03/2026 21:15

My mum lost hers in a chest freezer and I lost mine in a kids clothes drawer - mum thinks her hand got cold and ‘thinner’ so hers fell off but with me, we have no idea but I found it months later when I was sorting out clothes that had been outgrown - agree with using a torch and getting down on the floor so see if it’s under anything as the light will catch and reflect with the diamond

goingtotown · 26/03/2026 22:09

Go through the contents of the vacuum cleaner.

cheapskatemum · 26/03/2026 23:27

Does your washing machine have a coin trap? I lost mine for 10 months, then found it when I needed to drain the washing machine. I worked out I must have stuck it in my jeans pocket before doing an energetic activity at kids club, in case it flew off. I then put the jeans in the wash forgetting the ring was there.

BrownTroutBluesAgain · 26/03/2026 23:30

If all else fails buy a metal detector

My neighbour lost hers and we used our metal detector and found it
job done