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Adulthood is….

39 replies

EineReiseDurchDieZeit · 02/03/2026 21:28

Forcing yourself to do the washing up so there are clean bowls for breakfast

Paying for invisible things

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KiwiKola · 02/03/2026 21:31

Unamusing

PenguinLover24 · 02/03/2026 21:32

Shite

KiwiKola · 02/03/2026 21:32

Although also the joy I felt when I was adult but not yet with responsibilities for small things like just having cheesecake for dinner if I wanted. Or just in general choosing what to eat.

Cheepcheepcheep · 02/03/2026 21:33

Worrying about all the things

Childhood is wanting to worry about all the things

WallaceinAnderland · 02/03/2026 21:34

Great.

Arlanymor · 02/03/2026 21:35

Being kept awake nightly by all manner of worries.

But also: ice cream for breakfast if I damn well want it!

Jellycatspyjamas · 02/03/2026 21:37

Always feeding - children, cats, dogs, me.

MadisonMarieParksValetta · 02/03/2026 21:38

Planning meals. I sometimes wish humans didn't need to eat.

cobrakaieaglefang · 02/03/2026 21:38

A con....I want to go out on my bike to play, no responsibilities.
I wanted as a child to go to bed when I wanted, turns out its the same time! 🙈😂

CarriedAWayy · 02/03/2026 21:40

I thought this summary of posts above your one was quite an apt response to your thread! 🤣

Adulthood is….
Lastqueenofscotland2 · 02/03/2026 21:41

A scam

mumofoneAloneandwell · 02/03/2026 21:41

Better than being in school tbh

mrsdolittle · 02/03/2026 21:42

Overrated. And exhausting

firstofallimadelight · 02/03/2026 21:51

Eating healthily, drinking water and exercising so you can look and feel significantly worse than you did in your teens

EineReiseDurchDieZeit · 02/03/2026 21:59

Feeling like you live in that one supermarket branch

Tolerating that person you would never normally have chosen to be friends with for the sake of a wider group

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YouBoggleMyMind · 02/03/2026 22:00

Overwhelming and lonely sometimes

MrsBridgetMcClusky · 02/03/2026 22:02

... a huge amount of responsibility

Peacexbliss · 02/03/2026 22:07

Peaceful.

TakeTheCuntingQuichePatricia · 02/03/2026 22:09

Complete and utter shit

Devilsmommy · 02/03/2026 22:12

Knowing it's all downhill when you turned into one. All the kids that want to grow up fast just don't realise how free they really are

BauhausOfEliott · 02/03/2026 22:12

Better than the alternative

ForAmusedHazelQuoter · 02/03/2026 22:12

So good.

NormasArse · 02/03/2026 22:13

KiwiKola · 02/03/2026 21:32

Although also the joy I felt when I was adult but not yet with responsibilities for small things like just having cheesecake for dinner if I wanted. Or just in general choosing what to eat.

And then actual adulthood kicks in and you have to decide what’s for dinner for the rest of your life…

EineReiseDurchDieZeit · 02/03/2026 22:14

Having at least one dodgy body part

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MaybeItWasMe · 02/03/2026 22:15

Never having done quite enough laundry.