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Adulthood is….

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EineReiseDurchDieZeit · 02/03/2026 21:28

Forcing yourself to do the washing up so there are clean bowls for breakfast

Paying for invisible things

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NormasArse · 02/03/2026 22:16

EineReiseDurchDieZeit · 02/03/2026 22:14

Having at least one dodgy body part

If only it was just one. They outnumber the non dodgy parts now.

rainbowsparkle28 · 02/03/2026 22:16

Seemingly spending your entire week working and entire weekend running errands and tidying up…but also garlic bread and popcorn for dinner if you fancy (living alone even better 🤷‍♀️), swings and roundabouts I guess! 😂

ThatshallotBaby · 02/03/2026 22:19

Like having homework every day and a permanent feeling of having more that you’ve forgotten about, and the homework you have managed to do was a bit shit

EineReiseDurchDieZeit · 02/03/2026 22:19

@NormasArseI hear you there but in particular I’m thinking of my dodgy knee it’s really giving me hip

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Mum2Fergus · 02/03/2026 22:20

Shit.

EineReiseDurchDieZeit · 02/03/2026 22:22

No one to say No to that bag of crisps you really shouldn’t be eating. This is both a pro and a con.

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Morepositivemum · 02/03/2026 22:23

If you ask my ds he’d have a different view- struggled in school now has a job he loves, sleeps in on the weekends and meets with friends. I remember all the freedom of being a young adult20s even 30s! Late 30s on things decided to get real!

SpottyAlpaca · 02/03/2026 22:26

Better than the alternative.

My best friend was killed in a car crash caused by a drunk driver when she was 20.

SapphireSeptember · 02/03/2026 22:36

@SpottyAlpaca I'm sorry, that's shit. 💐🥺

I've had different stages, being the responsible adult in a couple (18 to 30) and being stifled but deciding I could do stuff for myself before finally leaving, being a bit wild after that and having lots of fun (30-34) then finding out I was pregnant at 35 and now it's really hard work, terrifying and exhausting raising a small human, but I'm sitting here eating ice cream because I can now DS is in bed.

SpottyAlpaca · 02/03/2026 22:45

@SapphireSeptember Thank you.

It happened a very long time ago, but I do still sometimes think of her. And it means I have absolutely no time for people who whinge about the effects of ageing. Because getting older is a privilege.

Toddlerteaplease · 02/03/2026 23:25

Being able to buy yourself an Ice cream when out with your parents. And not have to ask permission to have one. I still find it strange!

shellyleppard · 02/03/2026 23:26

Monotonous....what to eat for dinner and the inevitable washing up!

EineReiseDurchDieZeit · 03/03/2026 10:16

Toddlerteaplease · 02/03/2026 23:25

Being able to buy yourself an Ice cream when out with your parents. And not have to ask permission to have one. I still find it strange!

Giving your parents advice!

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Toddlerteaplease · 03/03/2026 18:32

@EineReiseDurchDieZeit the problem with giving advice is that my dad, without fail will remind me, that he taught me how to use a spoon.

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