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Songs that deliver a gut punch

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IntelligentInputDarling · 17/12/2025 20:07

Sorry for weird title.
Just wondering if there are any songs, when heard unexpectedly, has the power to hit you in the gut and render you an emotional wreck.
I heard Separate Lives (Phil Collins/Marilyn Martin) earlier today and the emotions it brought up are still with me now.

Songs eh. Powerful stuff.

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EmeraldRoulette · 17/12/2025 20:10

oh that's a good song

Last year, The Bleachers released "Merry Christmas - please don't call" and it was a gut punch

I'm pleased to say this year I just enjoy it for the great song it is! Probably my favourite Christmas song ever.

there's a lot of songs that are a gut punch, though. But it tends to fade.

Sam Fender's "people watching" hit me very hard because I first saw it with the video. It wouldn't have been so difficult without it. Turned out it was my most listened to song on Spotify wrapped.

Oldandcobwebby · 17/12/2025 20:11

Caroline Says II by Lou Reed

unsync · 17/12/2025 20:16

Most of The Cure for me. Having grown up with them as my soundtrack, the last album about aging and loss was a real heart wrencher.

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chunkyBoo · 17/12/2025 20:21

There a Communards song called ‘For a Friend’ it gets me every single time. Reminds me of my first ever gay friend who died when I was early 20’s.
also Sound of Silence by Art &Gaefubkel

IntelligentInputDarling · 17/12/2025 21:12

@chunkyBoo I'm sorry for the loss of your friend.

Songs are funny things, some just hit you when you least expect it.

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Ramblingaway · 17/12/2025 21:21

Jesus to a child, George Michael. Pass me the tissues ...

BathTangle · 17/12/2025 21:24

Dance with my father by Luther Vandross. I lost my dad 16 years ago but that one still gets me even just thinking about it 😢

alpenguin · 17/12/2025 21:31

I remember hearing Run by Snow patrol on the radio during its first play. My entire life was falling apart at the time and it just hit me like a ton of bricks & I sat in my car and broke my heart. Hearing it takes me right back to that moment and feeling even although life is much much better now. I try not to pay attention to it if I hear it

GiddyDog · 17/12/2025 21:32

In dreams by Roy Orbison. Played at my beloved Granddad's funeral and I haven't listened to it since.

DollopOfFun · 17/12/2025 21:34

Spice Girls 2 Become 1.

It's not that I particularly like it, it's just that the sheer nostalgia when I hear it, kicks me in the guts.

OverlyFragrant · 17/12/2025 21:34

Stole by Kelly Rowland (about a school shooting)
Tears in Heaven by Eric Clapton
Small Bump by Ed Sheeran

Horrorscope · 17/12/2025 21:38

‘Empty’ by the Cranberries. Unfortunately, this song represents something very difficult that happened to me 30 years ago. It still has me in tears as soon as it starts, and transports me straight back to the experience like it was only yesterday. It’s an amazing song, though.

mellongoose · 17/12/2025 21:39

Kate Bush, This Woman’s Work. Associated with losing my darling baby girl. I can’t get through it now.

coolcahuna · 17/12/2025 21:39

Unwritten by Natasha Bedingfield had me in absolute floods of tears today!

CurlyhairedAssassin · 17/12/2025 21:41

DollopOfFun · 17/12/2025 21:34

Spice Girls 2 Become 1.

It's not that I particularly like it, it's just that the sheer nostalgia when I hear it, kicks me in the guts.

I was never a huge Spice Girls fan really but I agree with you on that. It transports me right back to Christmas Eve night out 1996, I can remember standing outside a particular nightclub, the feeling of the cold air hitting us, the feeling of being young and hopeful and with good friends after a fab and carefree night. Good times but a bittersweet feeling now I'm in my early 50s.

IlovetoKnitandRead · 17/12/2025 21:41

I Started a Joke by the Bee Gees, it gers me everytime

Fends · 17/12/2025 21:41

The Miracle of Love by the Eurythmics.

The1990club · 17/12/2025 21:41

mellongoose · 17/12/2025 21:39

Kate Bush, This Woman’s Work. Associated with losing my darling baby girl. I can’t get through it now.

Im so sorry for your loss. This song gets me too xx

Yourinmyspot · 17/12/2025 21:42

For me it’s Fields of gold by Sting and Everybody hurts by REM.

AutumnLover1989 · 17/12/2025 21:43

George Michael "Praying for time". It came up in my playlist when I was paying my respects to him at Highgate cemetery 😭

Chiefangel · 17/12/2025 21:43

The Hollies, He ain’t heavy, he’s my brother.
Just makes me cry every time I hear it. A beautiful song.

blankcanvas3 · 17/12/2025 21:43

Lover, You Should’ve Come Over - Jeff Buckley. I cry every time

Coaster1 · 17/12/2025 21:45

Alone Again Naturally by Gilbert O Sullivan. The chirpiness of the sad lyrics are heartbreaking

user1471453601 · 17/12/2025 21:46

Tom Waites singing Over the Rainbow. The first time I heard it I was so moved I had to sit down to listen to the end of it.

Whylurkwhenicanjoinin · 17/12/2025 21:46

Chiefangel · 17/12/2025 21:43

The Hollies, He ain’t heavy, he’s my brother.
Just makes me cry every time I hear it. A beautiful song.

This

To me it’s a modern day hymn, makes me cry too