Simple things that turn you on

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I could’ve sworn I saw a thread like this but can’t find it now. NC to protect the guilty (me!).

I’m early 40s and had a hysterectomy after a traumatic birth late last year. Hormones all over the place and sub-zero interest in sex since. Given my age and everything that happened I thought that part of me was quietly retiring.

But the other night we were driving home in the dark, DP at the wheel, sleeves pushed up so I could see his forearms, fresh haircut, calm focus, motorway lights flickering across his face… and suddenly BAM! Libido resurrected. Something about those exposed forearms, or his calm focus. I don’t know, but it did something!

If we hadn’t been on the road, I’d have climbed across the gearstick there and then 😅

Been a horny mess since. I’ve also taken to conspicuously peeking when he does press ups, never been so envious of a floor before 🥵

I’m sure it’ll pass soon, but in the meantime I’m enjoying the feeling while it lasts.

What are your simple/unexpected turn-ons? (Yes, I’m looking for ideas 😂)

There was a thread like this a while ago, I also remember, OP. Forearms came up a lot!

I really enjoy watching dh lift the bikes onto the bike rack on top of the car.

When I can’t do something because I’m a bit feeble physically and DH comes along and does it easily. DH is not traditionally masculine in a lot of ways which is fine by me because machismo grosses me out, but is very strong!

My partner has these amazing lips. He will be talking to me about something boring and I get fascinated by his lips moving and can't stop thinking about them on mine.

He is away a lot, and we chat most evenings on video call .... and he is telling me about his day and what he has been up to, and I can't take my eyes off them. Have no idea what he has just said though 🤔

Yanbu. However I need that camera!

My OH doesn’t need it and doesn’t look at it, still reverses the old fashioned look back with arm over passenger seat way. Thank god.

A certain accent...originally European but learned English among a team of Irish people and has adopted several quite Irish turns of phrase too.

A hand on my face or in my hair makes me weak at the knees...

I agree with the arms and shoulders too.

Hearing him laugh at something I've said or him making me laugh

Mmmmm off on a lovely little day dream

Love this ^^
For me, it’s DH getting changed or driving

Recently it's a thirst trap video of my celeb crush in his new film. There's a specific clip of him winking and it has a physical effect on me. With my DH it's watching him in the shower, his bum is my favourite part.

Admittedly this was years ago… DH was in an am dram panto, playing the baddie. Dressed all in black, talking in a deep voice, lots of stage presence and wearing - eye liner! Love a man with a bit of make up.

@AuntyAngelalove that , can’t wait for the next instalment . Maybe choosing a new soap powder ???? 😂

My dh loves to cook. If he’s perfecting a new recipe he’ll often call me into the kitchen and asks me to taste it. He will be there with a spoonful and cups my chin as he feeds it to me. Turns my knees to jelly everytime lol

These new fangled cars with cameras for reversing are putting an end to this pose. I mourn for it

When he wears a long sleeve roll neck with a tee shirt over the top. His arms are so defined. It’s a skiing look but he doesn’t ski so it’s hard to get him to wear it. He just laughs

…and the even better feeling when men can’t actually open the jar - they hand it (reluctantly) to me, and I can 😃

Forearms, every time. We are also going through a bit of a drought (😆) but it’s starting to slowly lift.

Love the jar porn, by the way! You should write more, @AuntyAngela !

I fear nothing will ever be able to reach the same heights as the thrill of the pop.

😆

On a similar note my favourite thing is any man with a thick wrist wearing a big watch or wrist wear preferably both wrists with something on.
Think James Martin.😍

Finding this thread interesting because I’ve never felt anything like that about another person. I’ve always thought there was something wrong with me but I think im probably asexual.
I’ve had relationships purely because I felt I should, rather than because of any attraction.

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Wow...you shoild write for Bill's and Moon!!!

Watching dp’s hands and wrists as he does something. They could so easily be doing something else 🥰😈

Many thanks @BauhausOfEliott for using ‘gives me the horn’, hadn’t realised but it’s a long time since I saw that anywhere.

Just imagining a whole load of men reversing their cars unnecessarily to attract women. Dented lamposts everywhere...

For me, it's dark under eye circles for men. The insomniac look. Weirdly, I hate my own so not sure why I like it in men.

My husband is a cellist. When he plays in a concert in all black…that intense concentration.

My DH did it yesterday, I melted 🥵

The forearms are a thing for me too op....
When he is driving and concentrating, changing gear.
When he puts his arm over behind my head rest to reverse....
When he carries my shopping bags....
He was using a screwdriver yesterday and had his sleeves rolled up again....cue me watching intently.
I am perimenopausal and not quite sure what is wrong with me but he's loving it 😂