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102 replies

Shithole101 · 15/08/2025 21:06

I have made the decision to leave mumsnet. I won't explain why . But i just wanted to say thank you to everyone who has shown me so much support over the years and believed in me. Lots of you have been fantastic and really helped me . This is not a negative thread its a thank you and goodbye thread..

So goodbye from shithole101 and all the other names you may now me under .

💐💐💐👋👋👋❤️❤️❤️❤️

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Shithole101 · 16/08/2025 00:52

BondAway25 · 16/08/2025 00:43

@Shithole101

I'm very sorry to see you go, your threads were great. I'll miss hearing about what you & the kids are up to & seeing all your projects.

i also used to chat to you a lot under ghost spirit, but never connected the two or any of your other user names, so if you change your mind, or come back, please start off as @Shithole101 or I'll never know it's you!!

are you sure you'll be better off without us? (If you just ignore the goady twats!!) ???0

Thank you. I didn't really realise anyone would know me from the ghostspirit days. Certainly not chatting although never knew . Its nice really.

I have spent many years ignoring. I can't anymore 💐

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Shithole101 · 16/08/2025 00:55

snemrose · 16/08/2025 00:45

I remember Ghostspirit and I am so glad you are no longer with that leech.
If you are the same poster who did an amazing wall in your dc bedroom then thank you for your inspiration - I did same for my ds and he loves it!
Hope life gets good for you

Yes i done the wall. That's lovely to hear im glad your children like it

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PennyRest · 16/08/2025 03:41

Be well OP. If you decide to return one day it will be good to have you back. I also can’t remember all my previous names but recognise a couple of yours.

Interested in this thread?

Then you might like threads about this subject:

Inshockandsome · 16/08/2025 03:51

That’s a real shame, but best to put your mental health first and everything else second. It can be a goodbye for now.
Look after yourself, get some support. Prioritise your own needs for a bit 💐

Monty27 · 16/08/2025 04:01

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BondAway25 · 16/08/2025 07:16

IdBeLionIfISaid · 16/08/2025 00:46

I'm sure you're trying to be supportive but this really isn't helpful to the OP. She really needs to step away from internet forums which she is recognizing. 'goady twats' are people who have pointed this out time and time again.

And accusing someone of sock puppeting is helpful or good for her? Your opinion means jack to me.

BondAway25 · 16/08/2025 07:20

@Monty27 that's horrible, just no need.

IdBeLionIfISaid · 16/08/2025 07:20

BondAway25 · 16/08/2025 07:16

And accusing someone of sock puppeting is helpful or good for her? Your opinion means jack to me.

Well same then. You can carry on encouraging a poster who wastes an inordinate amount of posters time. Or encourage a poster who clearly needs fucking help.

How lovely of you. Have a great day.

Scentedjasmin · 16/08/2025 07:21

Goodbye Shithole! Go forth into this world with a new confidence and with your head held high. I hope that your boys are still enjoying their wonderful rooms. You'll be missed for your candidness, honesty and as an inspiration.

BondAway25 · 16/08/2025 09:13

IdBeLionIfISaid · 16/08/2025 07:20

Well same then. You can carry on encouraging a poster who wastes an inordinate amount of posters time. Or encourage a poster who clearly needs fucking help.

How lovely of you. Have a great day.

People don't have to read/post, if they don't want to. if you keep engaging that's down to you.

I don't consider talking to someone on line who wants options/advice/just a chat to be wasting my time.

Telling someone 'to get fucking help' the way you do, isn't so much helpful as deeply unpleasant.

But I have no interest in arguing with you, it's only derailing shitholes thread. So I won't be replying to you again.

BondAway25 · 16/08/2025 09:14

Scentedjasmin · 16/08/2025 07:21

Goodbye Shithole! Go forth into this world with a new confidence and with your head held high. I hope that your boys are still enjoying their wonderful rooms. You'll be missed for your candidness, honesty and as an inspiration.

Very much so 👏🏻

Shithole101 · 16/08/2025 10:28

I was meant to deregister last night but fell asleep. So im doing it now so it won't be able to reply again. But a massive thank you to everyone who supported me and UNDERSTOOD me my way if thinking etc.

Sadly the negative side has become to much abd its had a massive impact . I cant say anymore ....

Thank you do you all 💐❤️💐💐♥️❤️💐

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Mangotangoisshit · 16/08/2025 10:52

So where are you going to post now?

DidIdotheritething · 16/08/2025 11:07

Do you mean someone has asked you to deregister? That’s shocking if so!

OlderGlaswegianLivingInDevon · 16/08/2025 11:19

As I suggested earlier and on your other thread, please contact The Samaritans and / or your GP.

Mangotangoisshit · 16/08/2025 11:30

DidIdotheritething · 16/08/2025 11:07

Do you mean someone has asked you to deregister? That’s shocking if so!

Nobody has asked her to deregister

DidIdotheritething · 16/08/2025 11:52

She said she was meant to deregister last night and I read that as she hadn’t made the decision herself?

IdBeLionIfISaid · 16/08/2025 11:55

For her own sake I hope she was told to but I doubt thats the case. I didn't read it as that.

DidIdotheritething · 16/08/2025 11:58

I can be very literal so it’s probably me reading it wrong.

OlderGlaswegianLivingInDevon · 16/08/2025 12:07

I thought she fell asleep instead and therefore didn't leave when she planned to, she wasn't asked to, she is choosing to. hence the Good Bye thread.

DidIdotheritething · 16/08/2025 12:14

I read I was meant to deregulated as someone having told her to. As opposed to “I meant to de register” which would be she meant to. But honestly. It’s probably me getting it wrong.

DollopOfFun · 16/08/2025 12:16

DidIdotheritething · 16/08/2025 12:14

I read I was meant to deregulated as someone having told her to. As opposed to “I meant to de register” which would be she meant to. But honestly. It’s probably me getting it wrong.

Yes I think it's you getting it wrong. She just was saying that she meant to deregister.

Who else could tell her to deregister anyway?

MounjaroMounjaro · 16/08/2025 12:30

I can never understand the need to make an announcement that you're leaving - wouldn't you just stop coming on here?

DidIdotheritething · 16/08/2025 12:44

DollopOfFun · 16/08/2025 12:16

Yes I think it's you getting it wrong. She just was saying that she meant to deregister.

Who else could tell her to deregister anyway?

MNHQ could.

DollopOfFun · 16/08/2025 12:45

DidIdotheritething · 16/08/2025 12:44

MNHQ could.

I think MNHQ usually just ban them.