I wish it was that easy- offer community and truth to get them back.
We managed to maintain a loving relationship by agreeing to disagree, and ignoring contentious subjects. For me, the lack of adoration by voiced for Trump, Farage, Tommy 10 names is a win, but the bigger win is not having to hear the demonisation of those on the left. The more overt and ridiculous Trump is being, the less I hear about how great he is.
It's a long and difficult road back, and full of false hope where they start to see the truth, then get caught in the next wave of bollocks and dragged back in.