Good for nothing

[Itsanewday25]

Just feeling a bit negative. It will pass but I just wanted to say it. Because its not something I can share.

I have litterly no education. I did not go to a mainstream school was told I had moderate learning difficulties. What ever that means.

On mumsnet for example and in real life. I see things written or said. And I have never heard of the word or seen it written. They often mean very basic things yet I don't know them. And because they are not something in my lifeI will forget it within 5 mins.

Then there's that thing I hear . Everyone's good at something/you just need to find your thing.

Nope I'm honestly not good at anything not academic, not artistic. No talents etc .

Tell me something interesting about yourself... I couldn't.

I just want to have a small skill. Or talent . Just a little something for me . Its for me to feel good about something. Not for others .

Do you want your children to have friendships? Then you need to model friendships for them.

I understand that too. So, you know what the answer is - try each and everything that takes your fancy - from bell ringing to paper maiche to mastering mario kart ,(!) And if you're crap at them all, so what, take pleasure in just having a go. but you may well find that something sticks and you find your feel good skill.

I tried to do couch to 5k once or twice i couldn't even slow Jog for 20 seconds. I can sing like wailing cat. I can kill plastic plants.

Same here. If it helps, I can't even breathe properly. I'm a mouth breather 😬🙈

I probably breath out of my arse 🍑

How about making abstract art? You don't need any 'skill' for this, you can just make shapes on paper using paints or colours - whatever you feel like. If you choose colours that you find pleasing they can turn out pretty awesome.

There's also free style dancing - put some music on and move your body. No one is watching so it doesn't have to be any good. It's great exercise and great for your mood.