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How do you wind down - without looking at rubbish on your phone?

56 replies

Ohwhatadag · 05/03/2024 10:40

My mind is often frazzled at the end of the day. Or I have 5 - 15 minutes between stuff. I always end up on my phone because my mind is too stressed or unfocused.

What do you do in these situations?

OP posts:
MrsSkylerWhite · 05/03/2024 10:41

I sew.

99victoria · 05/03/2024 10:41

Read a book? 😁

Mumoftwo1312 · 05/03/2024 10:42

Still counts as rubbish on my phone but - I play board games on boardgamearena. I'm really good at some of them and it's wholesome fun, and never depressing like reading the news or SM sometimes is

fabio12 · 05/03/2024 10:44

I'm trying to be more mindful of this as I seem to keep ending up on here!

I dog walk and listen to an audio book or podcast.
I have a lot of organising around the house to do so I try to jump up and do that for 10 mins if I find myself scrolling.
I watch a lot of series (Walter Presents)
I'm attempting to read a pile of books I've had for years.
Gardening if it's sunny (weed pulling can make it look tidy fast)
Cooking and prepping things - I like to batch cook and find filling the freezer satisfying.

I'm apparently pretty boring reading the above! I do also do SUP, hiking and holidays but not so easy to just "do" Grin

SerenityNowInsanityLater · 05/03/2024 10:46

Dog walk
Lay on the sofa and fall asleep do shavasana.
Listen to podcasts (on the sofa, while dog walking, while cooking dinner)
Read
Listen to a lot of music

caringcarer · 05/03/2024 10:50

Walk the dogs
Play with my cats.
Watch Netflix.
Go for a walk with DH.
Chat to adult DC who live away.
Read a book.

NotestoSelf · 05/03/2024 10:52

I read on my kindle or meditate. Or go outdoors, if its possible.

teacrumpetsandcake · 05/03/2024 10:53

Well, sometimes, I scroll on my phone.

Sometimes it's OK to scroll on your phone and it doesn't always need to be demonised. You're just unwinding and taking a few minutes. It's fine.

If you're worried you're spending too long doing it, just try something else like reading a book, watching some TV, going for a walk, drawing, having a chat with someone, etc.

taxguru · 05/03/2024 10:54

Read a book or listen to music.

Curlyshabtree · 05/03/2024 10:54

I do embroidery while listening to music.

stayathomer · 05/03/2024 10:57

Read a book, go out with the dog, write, colour but more likely watch tv🙈 I am getting better at puny phone away and am hugely feeling it BUT I have to tackle the Netflix thing😅

Toomuch44 · 05/03/2024 11:09

I read most evenings, but enjoy a good drama on tv. Sometimes I have a jigsaw (which I find additive) or puzzle book on the go.

Bjorkdidit · 05/03/2024 11:09

I've not actually read them yet, but I took out a couple of discount magazine subscriptions for 'something to do' that could be picked up and put down and wasn't screen based - they were £6 for 6 issues and you do have to cancel if you don't want to continue paying. I got Red and Good Housekeeping, which doesn't actually seem to be about housekeeping, more health, activity, food, travel, books, finance etc.

Plus maybe puzzles. I get the iweekend newspaper, which as well as having a good overview of the news of the week has a big puzzle section.

StrictlyAFemaleFemale · 05/03/2024 11:10

Listen to podcasts on my phone.

OohMrDarcy · 05/03/2024 11:17

Walk the dog - I never feel like it if it is dark / wet, but he looks at me all keen, and I drag myself up thinking I'll do a short walk, then by the time I'm 5 mins in, I've already doubled the length in my head - its really great for getting me out of myself and properly decompressing. If its quiet out I'll listen to music / audiobook etc too.

I read every night before bed too...

in between, there is definite doomscrolling but that also helps me to decompress when needed

Mollifi · 05/03/2024 11:22

Doodle zentangles

TotalAbsenceOfImperialRaiment · 05/03/2024 12:26

Read, listen to music, take a short walk, do something constructive in the garden or just sit on the patio listening to the birds.

Mysticguru · 05/03/2024 12:27

Mudras

Namechange13101 · 05/03/2024 12:55

read my kindle, do a meditation or my cross stitch!

frozendaisy · 05/03/2024 13:01

During daytime, read something, flick through recipe book for an evening dinner inspiration

Evening, herbal tea, read can either be a book or long articles in various magazines I get.

Or get H to read out dailymash articles that's usually fun and relaxing.

Soubriquet · 05/03/2024 13:03

I read a book. I always read a book at least half an hour minimum before bed

KThnxBye · 05/03/2024 13:07

Go for a walk, do some of a jigsaw, play the piano, do short HIIT or stretches. Read to the DC, read to myself, do the crossword.

Cheesymonster · 05/03/2024 13:07

I do crosswords.

Trickedbyadoughnut · 05/03/2024 13:09

Colouring in

gano · 05/03/2024 13:10

I knit.