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Just a bit ranty and fed up and irritated.

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TheChosenTwo · 04/11/2022 20:30

So instead of calling a friend and bumming them out I thought I’d just shout really loudly here!
aaaaaargjrghrgghhhggrhrgrgrheghhhhhhhhhh
🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬
would love to say that felt better but it doesn’t have quite the same effect bashing away carefully at tiny flat buttons on my phone!
anyone else having just a shitty Friday night?

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BCBird · 04/11/2022 20:34

My day at work.was mega stressful avd consequently has affected Fri night. As for friends letting u down or u wanting to say something,often we don't but then feel.very resentful. It's a pisser😨

EternalStench · 04/11/2022 20:38

Yeah I'm fed up too. Just got a lot on, no fun and no time to myself.

PositiveLife · 04/11/2022 20:40

Yep, I've spent most of it tidying and meal prepping after a full day at work. I'm tired and fed up and lonely. Dp seems distant and is busy all weekend anyway.

TheChosenTwo · 04/11/2022 20:42

@BCBird funnily enough I also had a very stressful start to my working day although it was a technical issue which resolved after a couple of hours but this ate into my day and i finished feeling pissed off because I know what will be waiting for me Monday morning!
sorry to hear your day has also been a fucking shitter.
and @EternalStench its crap not having time for yourself. I’m an emphatic believer that you can’t pour from any empty cup, that you have to take care of yourself first in order to take care of others. And when you struggle to find that time it really has a knock on effect 🥴

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AhmenGwendolyn · 04/11/2022 20:42

I’m SO BORED at work, it’s painful

bum me out with your woes TheChosenTwo

TheChosenTwo · 04/11/2022 20:43

@PositiveLife that doesn’t sound like the best way to start the weekend. Are you meal prepping for the next week?

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TheChosenTwo · 04/11/2022 20:44

Haha @AhmenGwendolyn i don’t think you’d be very entertained by what’s pissing me off 😂 think you’d probably be more pissed off with me for being a moany bag 😂😂😂
what do you do for work on a Friday evening?

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nonstoprenovation · 04/11/2022 20:45

Yes.. it's a shitty Friday, it's been a shitty week I have sooo much to do and I just feel totally wiped out..

What happened to you??

TheChosenTwo · 04/11/2022 20:47

@nonstoprenovation can you just ignore everything for tonight?

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TheChosenTwo · 04/11/2022 20:47

Well I’m going to post a summary in bullet points. Feel free to tell me to stop whingeing 😂

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FTB2022 · 04/11/2022 20:50

Not entirely sure why I'm in a bad mood because nothing obviously bad happened but today has just felt a bit shit.

Probably made worse by realising I've just finished the last of the tonic water.... gin & gin anyone?!

IntrovertedPenguin · 04/11/2022 20:52

Dislocated my toe. Have a shaking cat stuck on my lap from the pissing fireworks. And DS6 keeps shouting "mummmmmm!" Every 6 seconds.

Can I join the club?

TheChosenTwo · 04/11/2022 20:55

-crap tech issues at work meaning couldn’t get done what was needed
-ds birthday tomorrow so popped out at lunchtime to get last minute bits
-dc due to go to my mums tonight for games and fun meaning dh and I could crack on with getting stuff sorted (day out but then everyone round tomorrow night for party)
-got home, dh has been sick and home from work all day, he was in bed watching telly, but sleepy
-crack on with all the shit that needed doing in the house.
-cleaner off this week so more to do than usual.
-wrapped presents, unloaded dishwasher, sorted laundry, general house shit
-needed cake stuff so went to supermarket
-got home to find ds crying in pain with suspected ear infection
-he is now not going for games night
-call 111 (just needs some antibiotics as responds well to these, he is prone to ear infections)
-drop one dc to mums for games night
-realise now need to make poorly ds some dinner in a kitchen I just cleaned (fine, just wasn’t expecting him to be home to cook for, dh and I had been planning on getting house prepped for tomorrow and being sorted and then going out for quick dinner which obviously wasn’t happening anyway since he was poorly)
-make ds some dinner, he is now in bed with dh and I’m fretting now thinking he may also get sick if this is a bug
-plough on making birthday cakes for a party that might not happen
-fancy a drink but realise that I need to collect dc later from games night and also possibly take ds to get ear looked at
-put vodka back in fridge resentfully
-run out of wrapping paper
-dropped double cream on the floor
-lost the tortoise

anyway. I’m sure there is much more to add to this delightful shitstorm of the last 4 hours 😂😂😂
can I just add, I know it’s nothing dramatic, I know it’s all fine really, but FOR FUCK SAKE WHY IS EVERYTHING GOING FUCKING WRONG GOD DAMMIT 🤬🤬🤬😂😂

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TheChosenTwo · 04/11/2022 20:56

@FTB2022 I loathe gin but right now I’d chug a gin and gin 😂

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Mercy1968 · 04/11/2022 20:59

Work has been mad. Secondary school coming up to exams.
Have to wait for my car to get MOT Ed as there's a backlog so been walking and getting the bus...not fun

TheChosenTwo · 04/11/2022 21:00

Come on in @IntrovertedPenguin - how did you do your toe?
i broke one of mine playing ball in the house 😳
amazing how as soon as you have an injured toe it serves as a beacon for everyone and their fucking dog to come and accidentally step on it 🤬

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TheChosenTwo · 04/11/2022 21:00

Oh @Mercy1968 this doesn’t sound conducive to a happy Friday night. Welcome!!

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TheOtherWoman2 · 04/11/2022 21:01

today
I caught the ex husband cheating again not long after divorcing him (whilst I was in rehab)
horse got knocked over and killed outside my house
I had a kidnap threat
my dog got run over
been banned from driving for 3 months

TheChosenTwo · 04/11/2022 21:02

@TheOtherWoman2 fuck. Want my vodka? I can’t drink it 💐

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TheOtherWoman2 · 04/11/2022 21:03

TheChosenTwo · 04/11/2022 21:02

@TheOtherWoman2 fuck. Want my vodka? I can’t drink it 💐

put me back in rehab 😂

PyjamaFan · 04/11/2022 21:03

TheOtherWoman2 · 04/11/2022 21:01

today
I caught the ex husband cheating again not long after divorcing him (whilst I was in rehab)
horse got knocked over and killed outside my house
I had a kidnap threat
my dog got run over
been banned from driving for 3 months

Christ that's a bad day.

Hope you're OK

TheOtherWoman2 · 04/11/2022 21:04

PyjamaFan · 04/11/2022 21:03

Christ that's a bad day.

Hope you're OK

thanks lovely you too x

TheChosenTwo · 04/11/2022 21:05

Oh ffs 😂 sorry love!!!!!

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NImumconfused · 04/11/2022 21:06

Poor you! I remember having organised a party for my son's 7th birthday, used to go all out in those days, hand made decorations, elaborate cakes, lots of activities etc (I wised up after a while!! ) only for him to come down with a vomiting bug about an hour before his friends were due to arrive. It really sucks!

Have you found the poor tortoise yet?

PositiveLife · 04/11/2022 21:07

TheChosenTwo · 04/11/2022 20:43

@PositiveLife that doesn’t sound like the best way to start the weekend. Are you meal prepping for the next week?

No! I think that's what makes it worse. I just had stuff that needed using up in the fridge. I think I've made a slight balls up with money and am stressing so don't want to waste any food. Basically losing about 9 days pay soon while changing jobs (taken too much holiday and gap between start dates)