I also had another experience a few years later, totally unrelated to my husband. I decided to take my children away to a nice holiday cottage in Worcester. My eldest daughter had always had a sense of the paranormal from a young age. When she was 3 I used to wake in the night hearing her talking, I would go to her room and ask her who she was talking too, she always said the lady in the red dress, which was creepy because when I was a teenager there was always a ghost story of a bridge in our town that had a ghost of a lady in a red dress. Our house was right near to that bridge! One night I woke and heard her downstairs. When I went down she had all her toys out of her box and was talking. I asked her what she was doing and she said I'm playing with the old man, very creepy, also in that house our cat would never go upstairs but would stand on the bottom step, looking up and hissing!
Anyway back to the holiday cottage, we arrived on the Saturday, all seemed fine, my eldest daughter had a room on her own and my twins shared. My daughter put her things on the shelves in the room and when she went back up they had been thrown on to the floor. After that nothing else happened all weekend and I remember lying in bed that night and thinking do I feel safe here, I did. On Monday my new partner came to join us at the cottage. Once he arrived things started to get very strange my eldest daughter and I went into town to get some shopping while my partner stayed with the twins watching a film in their room. I called him from the shops to see if he wanted anything specific, he was totally freaked out, he said your still at the shops, I thought you were back, I heard a car pull up on the stones outside, I hear the back door open and close, I heard foot steps coming up the stairs, I was expecting you to walk into the room just as you called me, when he checked no one was there.
The next day we were in our room and we both saw shadows a figure on the wall.
After my partner arrived the atmosphere in the house completely changed from peaceful and calm to creepy and strange. We both felt a presence, I felt strongly it was a male who didn't like another male being there.
The next evening my partner was standing at the back door smoking a cigarette, I was standing in the kitchen talking to him, all of a sudden the kitchen tap turned itself on full blast, we were both terrified and immediately ran upstairs to our room, as we ran we heard a male laughing, it was absolutely terrifying. We got into bed, he cuddled me and I fell asleep straight away, I wanted to sleep because I was so scared I just wanted it to stop. My partner stayed awake most of the night, he was terrified, he said the strange things continued all night, he heard foot steps, he heard laughing, he said there was a strange smell of fresh berries all night in our room. He also said I was talking but he couldn't understand what I was saying but it was not my voice but a male voice.
In the morning we packed our things and left, we couldn't get out of there quick enough. That was the only time I experienced a presence that scared me and I hope it will be the last!