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Do you watch porn?

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Bethann85 · 01/10/2022 14:44

I do, I'm 37, married with one DC - I watch most kinds, gay, lesbian, straight, trans even! I'm a heterosexual women in an office job.
I don't watch it often, maybe one a week/fortnight - doesn't everyone?

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Pixiedust1234 · 03/10/2022 01:11

User492 · 03/10/2022 01:03

@NalaNana no, Us men watch porn to focus on the woman because thats what we are attracted to. We dont focus on the man (Well straight men dont do that anyway)

I think a lot of women are in denial

@NalaNana

Read the quoted post "us men", now read the first post "heterosexual woman, aged 37".

I'm not saying nuffink though, just asking you to think 😉

womaninatightspot · 03/10/2022 01:14

Lets face it woman are better looking than men. Straight porn seems to involve all sorts of unpleasantness choking, slapping, fisting, anal, double penetration. It's all about men being abusive towards and dominant over women. Why would a woman be turned on by that? That's a rather unpleasant straight man's fantasy.

NalaNana · 03/10/2022 01:15

@User492 I'm not sure how to break this down for you in a way that you'll understand.

I enjoy receiving oral sex more than I enjoy giving oral sex. Therefore, I prefer to watch scenes focusing on a woman receiving oral sex. There are more of these scenes in lesbian porn. That does not mean I exclusively watch lesbian porn, or that I want to sleep with other women, or that I have any romantic feelings towards women.

You can tell me I'm bisexual/lesbian until you're blue in the face but it doesn't change the fact that I'm straight 🤷🏻‍♀️

It's possible that you're insecure and don't feel that women are attracted to you. That would explain why you're on mumnet on a Sunday night/Monday morning, and why you think all women must be lesbians.

User492 · 03/10/2022 01:17

@womaninatightspot Yeah I suppose women are hotter than us men but men are more interesting, funnier, smarter etc.

Id rather be around and work with men although I like to have sex with women, I also want kids as well so thats another reason why but I dont care about thier personalities

User492 · 03/10/2022 01:19

@womaninatightspot I only pretend to be in love with women so that I can have sex and get kids from them.

Since realizing that many women are not sexually attracted to men and think that women are hotter I have lost all romantic feelings for them.

Zerogravity · 03/10/2022 01:33

No because I have a moral compass and don't like to contribute to the devastation porn causes.Nobody needs porn fgs!

WalkthisWayUK · 03/10/2022 01:34

No I don’t watch porn.

Because I don’t want to exploit or denegrade other human beings. (And no… they aren’t just happy to do it and in charge… have you any idea of the rotten world of porn - any porn?!)

wackamole · 03/10/2022 01:59

"Everyone does it" sounds like the excuse a porn addict gives their partner who raises ethical, aesthetic, or personal objections. I've even seen posters on here trying to convince complete strangers that everybody's secretly watching porn. IRL, while it's pretty widespread and normalised, I'd say a majority of people avoid or simply don't have reason to use it. Could be out of lack of interest, or desire to boycott an unethical/harmful/exploitative/damaging industry, or because it's a waste of money, or because they consider it tacky ... any number of reasons. I think you'd need a reason TO watch/consume porn, not a reason NOT to.

starray · 03/10/2022 02:15

No, especially not after having children. The thought that young people my child's age could be coerced and exploited for someone's sexual gratification turns my stomach. That's someone's child, sister, or brother you are watching.

Lessofallthisunpleasantness · 03/10/2022 02:18

Nope, not interested.

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