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Do you watch porn?

60 replies

Bethann85 · 01/10/2022 14:44

I do, I'm 37, married with one DC - I watch most kinds, gay, lesbian, straight, trans even! I'm a heterosexual women in an office job.
I don't watch it often, maybe one a week/fortnight - doesn't everyone?

OP posts:
Crinkle77 · 02/10/2022 12:25

I have watched it on the odd occasion years ago just out of curiosity but not watched for about 25 years.

PornographicPriestess · 02/10/2022 12:25

Yes.

Cascais · 02/10/2022 12:25

No

TamzinTotally · 02/10/2022 12:31

I do. Not quite interested in the variety you are though. Mostly watch bondage/rough/fantasy with the guy/s in charge 😳
I listen to/read some erotic literature as well but I can get into more romantic stuff with that. With porn I feel like if it’s too lovey dovey it’s hard to get going quick enough to make it worth while? Do you know what I mean?

Of course the line between erotic literature and romantic literature is pretty thin. Take Mr Darcies pants off and give him a firm hand (cough) and you’ve got the next 50 shades. I’m sure fan fiction has been written already (not that I would know or anything).

Im interested in that you like gay/trans/lesbian stuff. For me I have to put myself in the place of the woman or fantasise that I could be her (or she could be someone I know and the man someone I know).

YellowTreeHouse · 02/10/2022 12:51

Of course I do. Multiple times a week.

User492 · 02/10/2022 23:57

@Bethann85 How are you hetrosexual if you watch lesbian porn?

Spudina · 03/10/2022 00:02

I do. I actually prefer lesbian porn. I’m straight and happily married.

AfterSchoolWorry · 03/10/2022 00:04

No. It grosses me out.

Pixiedust1234 · 03/10/2022 00:04

User492 · 02/10/2022 23:57

@Bethann85 How are you hetrosexual if you watch lesbian porn?

I wouldn't be surprised if they have hairy hands and are using this thread as a relief. It does happen.

No I don't watch it.

Delilahonabike · 03/10/2022 00:08

No, I prefer erotic literature. Hurts no one and does the job.

Rapidtango · 03/10/2022 00:08

Pixiedust1234, I think OP has already had a thread deleted today......... So, you may be right Grin

User492 · 03/10/2022 00:13

@Spudina well if naked women turn you on then your not straight. Do you watch men in porn? Cause If you cant get turned on visually by naked men then your a lesbian

womaninatightspot · 03/10/2022 00:14

No. It'd feel like I was encouraging the abuse of women. I do read smutty literature though. Always did prefer a good book to a film.

User492 · 03/10/2022 00:16

@Pixiedust1234 well apparently there are "straight" women out there who only watch lesbian porn/women because naked men turn them off (Which sounds full on lesbo to me)

Thats why Im scared to date women because many seem to be lesbian or just use men for validation

Spudina · 03/10/2022 00:22

@User492 I’m not confused about my sexuality thanks. I watch some straight porn. Both do the trick. But lesbian is aesthetically more pleasing.

HeadacheEarthquake · 03/10/2022 00:26

@user492 it's way past your bedtime on a school night. Go to sleep.

Armadillidium · 03/10/2022 00:26

No, it’s not for me.

User492 · 03/10/2022 00:27

@Spudina so when watching lesbian porn you dont imagine yourself in the scene having sex with those women? So naked women turn you on but not naked men?

I think women are only attracted to men romantically but not sexually, I feel like many women are more attracted to the female body than male body but yet only like us men because of the attention we give them

Pixiedust1234 · 03/10/2022 00:42

User492 · 03/10/2022 00:16

@Pixiedust1234 well apparently there are "straight" women out there who only watch lesbian porn/women because naked men turn them off (Which sounds full on lesbo to me)

Thats why Im scared to date women because many seem to be lesbian or just use men for validation

oh... I know who you are now. I remember your last thread.

cooolio · 03/10/2022 00:59

Love it when a bloke wanders into mn 🙄

NalaNana · 03/10/2022 01:00

Yes multiple times a week!

Lesbian porn is one of the most popular categories for straight women (if not the most popular) because it focuses on women's pleasure. In the same way that men enjoy watching other men receiving oral sex, women like to watch other women receive oral sex. This is much more prevalent in lesbian porn.

User492 · 03/10/2022 01:03

@NalaNana no, Us men watch porn to focus on the woman because thats what we are attracted to. We dont focus on the man (Well straight men dont do that anyway)

I think a lot of women are in denial

NalaNana · 03/10/2022 01:05

@User492 interesting to hear that straight men don't watch blowjob porn and only lesbian porn since they only like to see naked women.

Oh and we don't use men for validation, we use them for their money silly 😜

User492 · 03/10/2022 01:06

@NalaNana If your a woman who gets turned on at the idea of having sex with another woman then your bisexual/lesbian. Straight people dont get turned on by the same sex.

So straight men watch women, gay men watch men, lesbians watch women but yet straight women watch women?

If a bloke watches gay porn then everyone would be calling him gay

User492 · 03/10/2022 01:08

@NalaNana yes but we imagine the woman having sex with us. Many women only seem to like men romantically but not sexually, Its like visually women are not turned on by our bodies and prefer womens.

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