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Do you ever write a reply on a thread and delete it before posting?

32 replies

I6344 · 04/08/2022 13:16

I feel like I am constantly typing out replies and then deleting them. Usually it's because I'm being unnecessarily bitchy or it's something that isn't worth an argument. I can't be the only one who does this right?

OP posts:
ImShrunk · 04/08/2022 13:27

Can't figure out if this is a trap

yousolucky · 04/08/2022 13:28

Yes. Often.

hoorayandupsherises · 04/08/2022 13:28

ImShrunk · 04/08/2022 13:27

Can't figure out if this is a trap

😂

Wishihadanalgorithm · 04/08/2022 13:30

All of the time. I reread and think no one cares, so delete.

jammiewhammie65 · 04/08/2022 13:31

All the time Then I think if I say that I will be struck off Grin

IncompleteSenten · 04/08/2022 13:31

Loads.

JassyRadlett · 04/08/2022 13:32

MN would probably be a better place if more people did this. 🙂

YouLookinSusBro · 04/08/2022 13:33

All the time but not for the same reasons as you. Usually it's because I just CBA to post it or don't want to give away too much identifiable info

Shannith · 04/08/2022 13:35

.

I6344 · 04/08/2022 13:35

Hahaha definitely not a trap 😂
I've got a chronic illness which makes me a grumpy bitch sometimes and I have a dark sense of humour. Sometimes I'll write a post, read it back and quickly delete it so I don't get banned from here 😂

OP posts:
Shannith · 04/08/2022 13:36

. That one. ^^^

Shannith · 04/08/2022 13:37

That was only funny if it was the post straight after

Thanks @I6344 Wink

SteveHarringtonsChestHair · 04/08/2022 13:38

I usually start saying something relevant and then go off on a tangent about my ex and all the shitty things he said and did, then realise I’ve made it all about me again and delete!

SalviaOfficinalis · 04/08/2022 13:45

I’m attempting to go with the age old “if you’ve got nothing nice to say, don’t say anything at all”.

So I try to only post things that are positive or useful/constructive. Or hilarious.

(yes, I know this is none of the above).

HarrietSchulenberg · 04/08/2022 13:48

All the time.

EinsteinaGogo · 04/08/2022 13:52

Yep, often, OP!

Usually when I'm writing a snippy comment, and i think - "do I really want to pollute my headspace with this" and delete.

TambourineOfRepentance · 04/08/2022 13:52

Yes, usually in the spirit of "Oh what's the bloody point i know I'm right."

Shlomping1234 · 04/08/2022 13:52

Yes, and then I think I may be outted and delete 😆

darlingdodo · 04/08/2022 13:53

Frequently

VanillaParkersBowl · 04/08/2022 13:56

SteveHarringtonsChestHair · 04/08/2022 13:38

I usually start saying something relevant and then go off on a tangent about my ex and all the shitty things he said and did, then realise I’ve made it all about me again and delete!

Same. Did it not ten minutes ago 😅

JamTuesday · 04/08/2022 13:56

Yes. For the not wanting to be banned reason.
Or sometimes the thread disappears.

JustKeepLookingWithYourEyes · 04/08/2022 13:56

All the time! You should have seen my first reply before I deleted 😉

Icecreamclassic · 04/08/2022 13:58

I quite often delete one because altgough I know I'm trying to be constructive and it comes from a good place, there's too much potential for people to misunderstand and attack.

emsiewill · 04/08/2022 14:01

Wishihadanalgorithm · 04/08/2022 13:30

All of the time. I reread and think no one cares, so delete.

This is me exactly! It's like by the time I've got to the end of my post even I've got bored, so I think no-one else is likely to be interested...

WeAreTheHeroes · 04/08/2022 14:02

Yes - sometime because I think I'm not adding anything to the conversation, sometimes because it's about me and not really relevant, sometimes because it just sounds argumentative, etc, etc. That said, it can be good to get things off your chest and not post or send them.

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