Hi all
I’m a married female in her early 30s with young children. I basically live in my pyjamas, never get dolled up and hardly get dressed either. Don’t get me wrong, I do take a shower and I’m clean, brush my hair and look put together but all the whilst wearing pyjamas or loungewear. Between maternity leave and working from home I’ve just never felt the need to get dressed up, even at weekends I don’t bother. It’s more so because I’m simply not into it anymore. If I get any spare time between general house chores and child related stuff then the last thing on my mind is putting on make up or a nice outfit.
Anyway, the question is… how do men feel about this? Am I being naive in thinking my partner doesn’t mind or should I be putting in more effort to impress him and keep the relationship alive. I know it depends on each individual and relationship but generally do men prefer their ladies to look nice?
I know my partner would definitely prefer me to put more of an effort in, I feel like I’ve become a lazy slob who’s just not investing in her relationship anymore. I get help around the house and with the kids so it’s not like I don’t get that little spare time to do it but I can’t bring myself to bother?
Sorry rambled a bit.