Just found a written note in my 16 year old DD’s bedroom basically saying she was plied with alcohol and raped. She has written down what she remembers about the incident. The letter was hidden inside a cushion. It sounds as though she knows the person and went to his house. I have no idea what to do.
To provide some context on our relationship, about 3 years ago she started to change, withdrew from the family, me especially. She doesn’t like me kissing or hugging her. She doesn’t want to spend time with me doing normal stuff DDs do with moms. She has been seeing CAMHS for a couple of years. She self harms and was diagnosed with emotional dysfunction a couple of weeks ago. ED is linked to trauma. My DD says she doesn’t know what her trauma was, she says the same to CAMHS. She sees CAMHS on her own (her choice) with me waiting outside the room.
What the hell do I do? The note was obviously not meant to be found or for me to read.