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Conceived when? I’m going crazy

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Mandyfox90 · 30/12/2020 20:52

Hi

I’d like some peoples advice or opinions

Going off my last period.9/11/20 I should be 7 weeks 2 days.
I’ve had excruciating pain in one side which I ended up being checked for. I was scanned and there was nothing there. Which meant I was quite early. Hcg levels were 400 but have since progressed well.

I went for a scan today as following that initial scan it’s sent me into a panic. I assumed this would be my ex husbands who I’ve agreed to take back and give it another go. I did sleep with someone else 30th November. I agreed to give it another go after this incident.
I slept with my ex husband 19-23rd November.

The scan today said 5 weeks 6 days so I’d be 6 weeks tomorrow. Could someone please tell me when I’d likely conceived as that gestation is the actual growth and not of the last period. (The last period would make me further along which I’m not)
I’m panicking now as I don’t want this to hinder us being back together.

How could I be so stupid. :-(

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Fifthtimelucky · 31/12/2020 10:27

You've had good advice on the likely date of conception and I wouldn't presume to comment on your relationships, but I do advise you very strongly to consider your drinking habits.

If you lose consciousness after drinking only small amounts of alcohol there may be something very wrong. Worth getting checked out perhaps? Even if there isn't anything medically wrong, you are putting yourself - and potentially your children - in a very vulnerable position every time you drink.

Mandyfox90 · 01/01/2021 13:51

Hi
Thank you all for your advice.
I’ve decided I’m going to get a prenatal paternity test done. Both fathers are now aware of the situation. I feel like a weight has been lifted.
So hopefully I’ll have a clearer picture in a couple of weeks.

:-)

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rookgizzardpie · 01/01/2021 13:57

Are you ready and able to raise the baby as a single parent? Base your decision (continue or terminate) on that

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Mandyfox90 · 01/01/2021 14:05

@Fifthtimelucky
I don’t lose consciousness. But I have episodes where I can’t remember a thing to often. But I shall not be drinking for some time now regardless of a baby or not. I can’t continue as I am. I presume it’s down to the horrendous 2.5 years I’ve had where I’ve just gone of the rails. Marriage break down, constant Family drama. It’s never ending.

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rainbownamebow · 26/01/2021 18:11

How are you doing op?

Mandyfox90 · 27/01/2021 06:02

I paid for the prenatal paternity. It Was my ex husbands. So I’m still pregnant
😀😀

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