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Can school exclude over toileting?

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Imadehimlikethat · 27/09/2020 13:18

Just that really.
DS is 5. Still not toilet trained. In year 1.

He said he can't feel when it's coming, doc thought constipation so have meds. Immediately cleared him out so we adjusted the dose and now one soft poo daily. Def no more blockage as we can tell.

He still won't tell us when he needs to go. Shows no interest in learning. Will sit on the loo when I tell him to and can't change his own nappy but requires some promoting still.

His scho report last year (just received) was blah blah fine but I expect him toilet trained in Sept. It's now nearly Oct and were no closer.

Rewards don't work.

Obv this is about our shot parenting but I don't know how to rectify that.

I'm wondering if at some point school will just refuse to have him (mainstream) and of they would involve social services?

OP posts:
blue25 · 28/09/2020 20:37

They can’t exclude but they may well make things very difficult for you and your son. It’s very hard for schools to manage this level of incontinence without extra adult support.

SleepingStandingUp · 28/09/2020 21:27

@blue25

They can’t exclude but they may well make things very difficult for you and your son. It’s very hard for schools to manage this level of incontinence without extra adult support.
He has a 121 and tbf have been good and understanding I just worry when the goodwill goes and if they decide were not making enough progress.
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