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It wasn’t wind... it was a baby!

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Ohshitx · 01/06/2020 08:10

So here’s part 2 (which is crazy to me)

There isn’t really an update as such I should hear today or tomorrow regarding a scan. I’ve got the MW again on Thursday and I suppose this week will be the week of grand reveals.

I’m sorry if I disappear for a day at a time I’m still trying to wrap my own head around this.

OP posts:
Flora20 · 10/06/2020 09:24

I've been following this but haven't posted yet - wanted to say good luck for today and well done for dealing with with all of this while coming across so calmly (despite the name!) I didn't want to keep reading without commenting as it felt a bit wrong! Ignore the trolls, some people need to remember that if you can't think of anything nice to say, don't say anything at all 🙂

Iwantacookie · 10/06/2020 09:32

Good luck today op.

21NewNames · 10/06/2020 09:36

Good luck today. Hope all is well with FWB when you see him later.

EThreepwood · 10/06/2020 09:52

Good luck today OP have a wonderful day!

Chimchar · 10/06/2020 09:57

Good luck for the scan. Well done on telling fwb... it sounds like he took it well.
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Weenurse · 10/06/2020 10:15

Good luck with your scan 💐

Prettybubblesintheair · 10/06/2020 10:15

Op don’t apologise for disappearing and please ignore the unkind posters. This is your life, you don’t owe anyone on this thread anything.

Good luck with your scan and well done on telling your FWB. Flowers

Whatishappening9876 · 10/06/2020 10:15

Good luck with the scan!

GU24Mum · 10/06/2020 10:28

All the best for the scan. As the PPs have said, ignore the weird idiots who have nothing better to do than troll.

ItsMischerWavy · 10/06/2020 10:45

Good luck for today 🍀 we're all behind you OP. XX

BindTheWobbinUp · 10/06/2020 11:01

All the best for the scan today, OP.
Don't feel obliged to come back and update.

MrsCalypsoGrant · 10/06/2020 11:07

De-lurking OP, I haven't commented as I know you're not able to update much given all you have going on & I didn't want to be just another message lengthening the thread. I did want to congratulate you though - on the baby, & the way you have faced up to this with such maturity. I imagine your head is still spinning but I hope in time you can look back & feel proud at the way you handled such a challenging situation. I'm glad your FWB seems to be responding well too. I wish you all the best for the scan, & echo what others have said - you don't owe us anything. Update if you want to - there are many of us willing you on who would love to hear from you - but your only obligation is to yourself. Take care Thanks

Ronnie68 · 10/06/2020 11:10

Well done for telling him! I'm sure you feel happy that he knows.
Good luck with your scan later ny lovely.
I'm sure it'll feel even more real once you see yhem on screen.
Don't apologise for not posting often I'm sure you have better things to do with your time without having to keep posting fornus nosey lot!
I truly hope all works out well for you all!
Here's to new beginnings!
Take care xxx

PunishmentSnart · 10/06/2020 11:12

Hope all is well today @Ohshitx.

If you have an otherwise good relationship with your Mum you should tell her. She will be a lot of support and may be able to help you tell your DS Flowers

OhioOhioOhio · 10/06/2020 11:14

Sounds like you are doing really well op.

ShadowMane · 10/06/2020 11:38

@Ohshitx

Hi,

I’ve told him. I’m also trying to work from home, homeschool a kid and get my head around it all myself. So if you don’t believe me, or are bored because I haven’t rushed back with updates, can I kindly ask you just leave the thread?! I don’t know what I’m supposed to gain from a made up thread to hundreds of women I don’t know.

We’re meeting tomorrow, I have a scan in the afternoon. I took the easy way out and text him last night, he rang this morning. He sounds OK, as far as I can tell. I’ve told him to take the day and if he wants to come tomorrow he can, he said he would like to. I haven’t told Mum, DS or anyone else.

I’m sorry I keep disappearing but this is my actual life, and while I realise it’s interesting and just a thread on a forum to a lot of people, it’s my life and I just wasn’t reading updates. So whatever the deleted comments are, again I can’t comment. Sorry.

Are you ok to take him to the scan? in the current covid situation i mean?
ellendegeneres · 10/06/2020 11:41

Good luck today, have been following without adding to the madness. Don’t feel you need to do anything you’re not ready for.

RobinRose · 10/06/2020 11:46

Hope today goes well for you @Ohshitx! Have also been following without adding, it's a crazy situation for you to be in in! 🍀

L0bstersLass · 10/06/2020 12:33

Hoping all goes well for you today. So pleased that FWB's reaction seems to be measured and that he indicated he would like to come with you to the scan. Thinking of you.

Coffeeislife04 · 10/06/2020 13:18

Hi lovely been following from the start but haven't posted good luck for your scan and hope everything goes wellFlowers

IJustWantFiveMinutesAlone · 10/06/2020 13:18

Just nipping back on to add my well wishes today @Ohshitx xx

Flibbertyjibbit · 10/06/2020 13:19

Good luck with scan this afternoon Flowers

IAmReportingYouForBBQing · 10/06/2020 13:30

Good luck op.

CoveredInBeeeees · 10/06/2020 13:38

Ohshitx Easier said than done but just ignore the arses, seriously. You’ve got enough on without thinking about replying to them and they won’t be listening anyway. Best of luck for today Flowers

Wereonabearhunt · 10/06/2020 13:38

Good luck today. Dont forget for every troll theres a whole army of us here for you!