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It wasn’t wind... it was a baby!

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Ohshitx · 01/06/2020 08:10

So here’s part 2 (which is crazy to me)

There isn’t really an update as such I should hear today or tomorrow regarding a scan. I’ve got the MW again on Thursday and I suppose this week will be the week of grand reveals.

I’m sorry if I disappear for a day at a time I’m still trying to wrap my own head around this.

OP posts:
user1498572889 · 09/06/2020 19:35

Good luck with the scan. Glad he took it ok. X

Tessabelle1 · 09/06/2020 19:35

Good luck for tomorrow x

CormoranStrike · 09/06/2020 19:37

Best of luck for tomorrow @Ohshitx - I too think you are handling this remarkably, way better than most of us.

Hopefully you will get some clarity tomorrow.

JustAddCoffee91 · 09/06/2020 19:39

Op I hope your scan goes ok tomorrow 😘😘

MrMeSeeks · 09/06/2020 19:46

Good luck with the scan op! Glad fwb has taken it well-so far, both of you prob just need time for it too sink in!

monsterific · 09/06/2020 19:53

Well done OP. I imagine that was hard to do but I bet it feels like a weight has been lifted now that you have. Fingers crossed scan tomorrow goes ok. And please don't apologise for taking your time with this. As you say we are all strangers on a forum but the majority of us (please ignore the idiots) are rooting for you. Good luck tomorrow. X

GeraltOfRivia · 09/06/2020 19:56

Don't apologise for not treating your real life as an episode of a soap opera and posting updates. We're here for you if you need us and if you need your space for you the. That's natural and you don't need any of us to tell you that's ok.

I hope at your scan everything becomes clear and seeing your baby helps you accept and adjust.

Telling the father is the first step and it was a big one. Please take care of yourself before anything else.

SummerHouse · 09/06/2020 19:57

Some things are meant to be. Flowers

itsme · 09/06/2020 20:03

Good luck for your scan op. X

Temple29 · 09/06/2020 20:17

I’m glad the conversation went well with baby’s dad OP. Best of luck with the scan x

Wait4nothing · 09/06/2020 20:23

Sending lots of positive vibes for tomorrow- hope you get lots of information regarding how far along you are and meeting the baby’s father goes ok.

MrsPerfect12 · 09/06/2020 20:27

Glad everything went well with your FWB. Wishing you the best of luck tomorrow. 💗💙

WitchDancer · 09/06/2020 20:34

I'm so pleased you found the strength to tell him and that he's coming to the scan. I hope all goes well tomorrow 🤝

uncomfortablydumb53 · 09/06/2020 20:48

Wishing you all the best for your scan tomorrow

TheLovleyChebbyMcGee · 09/06/2020 20:48

Best of luck tomorrow, I can't get over how calm you are being in the middle of home schooling, working and generally living through the pandemic with this too!

MrsTannyFickler · 09/06/2020 20:50

Ignore the troll hunters!
Just want to wish you good luck tomorrow at the scan.

momtoolliex · 09/06/2020 21:05

Well done OP, that's one hurdle over! Good luck at your scan tomorrow, let us know how it goes when you get a chance 💛

JustAddCoffee91 · 09/06/2020 21:07

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JustAddCoffee91 · 09/06/2020 21:08

Ohh god haha I was supposed to make a new thread 😂😂

lilyboleyn · 09/06/2020 21:11

There are many posters here who are thinking of you OP and are here to support (or sit quietly beside you) as required. Much love for tomorrow.

Budapestpest · 09/06/2020 21:15

Good luck op. Don’t feel that you have to update the thread if you don’t want to. It’s your life and don’t feel under any pressure from people here, you’ve got enough going on

spiderlight · 09/06/2020 21:28

Good luck with the scan tomorrow.

BobbyTheVetIsMyHero · 09/06/2020 21:38

I know life must be a shit storm wrapped in internet trolls wrapped in home schooling. The fact you can form coherent sentences about it tells me you're coping with this change better than I would!

Would it be helpful to think of what you're excited about in the coming weeks/months/years?

BobbyTheVetIsMyHero · 09/06/2020 21:39

Thinking of you. Good luck tomorrow!

Bananaman123 · 09/06/2020 21:44

Good luck with the scan 💐

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