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Randoms online are more keen to make personal attacks than usual

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NoMoreDickheads · 16/04/2020 12:52

Oh dear, that's two randoms I don't know who've decided to have a go at me for no reason/excessively. I know this sometimes happens online, but this seems more random than usual.

I think maybe it's some people's way of feeling less bored. They need a hobby, or to find some programmes to watch.

Just posting as an observation really.

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MogeatDog · 16/04/2020 13:00

Definitely noticed an increase in aggressive and insulting replies much more than normal on MN.

LockedInMadness · 16/04/2020 13:04

This place is getting more rotten by the minute.

If only there was another place we could go where mums chat? Wink

Movement05 · 16/04/2020 13:05

I think there are people looking for posts they can respond to aggressively/negatively, as they often seem to be the first reply.

Movement05 · 16/04/2020 13:05

Although, not with this thread, obvs.

LockedInMadness · 16/04/2020 13:29

I also think the threads on here at the moment are so repetitive that they are trying to spice it up but it's not very nice.

Fredthedoggie · 16/04/2020 13:32

I think its why people are looking for alternative websites. I cant really manage the drama on here

EdwinaMay · 16/04/2020 13:36

Most of the country is cooped up at home - many without outdoor space. Many of the usual distractions of work gossip, shopping, gym are missing, money might be running out, kids might be bored, DP an equally bored pia.
No, can't imagine why people are being stroppier and more argumentative, must be the weather Hmm

NoMoreDickheads · 16/04/2020 13:42

One of the instances was a person PMed me here to say I came across as uneducated so no-one would take me seriously. She claimed to be trying to help. Grin

Another was something on FB.

I think a walk would do them good if they're able.

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NoMoreDickheads · 16/04/2020 13:43

@EdwinaMay Most people manage not to do it. I understand that everyone's a bit bored or whatever, but they're still in control of their typing fingers etc.

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EdwinaMay · 16/04/2020 13:44

Maybe one of the upsides of CV is that we'll all have thicker skins and not be so likely to rise to the bait when goady gits start on us.

MogeatDog · 16/04/2020 13:44

I left loads of facebook groups and I have silenced a few people and that has helped.

LockedInMadness · 16/04/2020 13:49

One of the instances was a person PMed me here to say I came across as uneducated so no-one would take me seriously. She claimed to be trying to help.

That's disgusting and I don't honestly think it would happen on the other new site, they seem to be much friendlier over there.

DioneTheDiabolist · 16/04/2020 13:54

This place is even more full of dementors and bitchploppers than usual.Shock It's almost as though people can't read and move on if a thread is not for them, they have to have a go.Hmm

NoMoreDickheads · 16/04/2020 13:55

@LockedInMadness Ooh which site is this? PM me if you prefer. xx

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LockedInMadness · 16/04/2020 14:04

Be quick op, mn are deleting pms that mention it.

MrsDoylesTeaBags · 16/04/2020 14:07

@lockedinmadness can you pm that to me too?

JasonPollack · 16/04/2020 14:10

What new site? Someone pm me?

Who sent you such a bitchy message NoMore? Name and shame that we can perpetuate the bitch cycle?

PurpleDaisies · 16/04/2020 14:11

Did you report that PM? That’s really off.

purplecorkheart · 16/04/2020 14:11

I would love to see that pm please

LockedInMadness · 16/04/2020 14:11

Mrs Doyle's
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LockedInMadness · 16/04/2020 14:12

Don't know where that apostrophe came from, ha

LockedInMadness · 16/04/2020 14:20

I have pm'd you all but as I say mn are intercepting pms, which is a bit naughty I think.

LockedInMadness · 16/04/2020 14:22

Let me know if you receive them

Anonuser1 · 16/04/2020 14:24

I'm finding the spamming of the new site even more tedious than the aggressive posting.

PowerslidePanda · 16/04/2020 14:26

Yep, I've been on the receiving end of this recently. I also came across one of those fast moving "chatty" threads the other day where the regulars were posting links to other threads just to collectively mock and bitch about them, make snide comments about other posters on the board, etc