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JaneyCartmel · 05/12/2019 04:46

I was just wondering when it became ok to be so rude to random strangers.

I’ve seen a couple of incidents recently. In the first a woman was walking past a group of office workers who were smoking and she made such an obvious fuss - glaring at them, coughing loudly and waving her hands. She walked into them though, you could see that they were smoking, so she could have just avoided them.

I was walking up to a tram stop and a woman was smoking. Another woman stopped to use her phone and was giving the smoker dirty looks, very obviously. Again, the smoker was there first so the phone user could have stopped 10 metres up the road if it bothered her that much.

I was sitting outside a coffee shop, there were ashtrays on some of the tables (so it was clear that smokers may smoke there). Two men were sitting, smoking while they drank their coffee and a woman sat down on the table next to them and started complaining loudly to her friend about how disgusting smokers are - she could have sat at a different table to avoid them.

All of these incidents have been in the past couple of months. The smokers have just ignored the aggression in all incidents, maybe they are used to it.

I smoked for a couple of years, around the time I was at Uni but quit many years ago, mainly because it was so expensive. I have a live and let live approach though, so don’t have an issue with other people smoking (as long as they aren’t standing next to me blowing smoke in my face!).

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SisterEvangelina · 07/12/2019 15:56

@SerenDippitty

Yes, if someone is smoking that close to you and there is no escape for you, it’s unfair.

I genuinely think that most smokers now are a bit ashamed of their habit and tend to hide to smoke, or go to smoking areas. If you choose to walk past them, then it’s your own fault if you get smoke in your face.

TisTheSeasonForMincePies · 09/12/2019 00:38

I don't drive, neither does my child... Are we allowed to complain about cigarette smoke? Hmm

AlexaAmbidextra · 09/12/2019 00:52

When I smoked I never, ever did it around other people. I would get as far away as I could and light up. But yes, I experienced non-smokers making a special journey to stand/sit close to me so they could moan. Which imo, goes to prove that they aren’t in any way worried about passive smoking. They’re just objectionable cunts.

TisTheSeasonForMincePies · 09/12/2019 08:20

Smokers are quite selfish really, I say this as someone who use to smoke... You don't really think about everyone else who has to be around it, it's basically toxic chemicals being inhaled and there's no actual need for it... Pollution is a problem with transport as well but let's face it... What's more useful to us... Transport or some stick filled with absolute shite?

You'll get the arrogant ignorant smokers that will try to paint non smokers as some rude weirdos for not wanting to inhale someone's smoke... Why should they? Especially when as some have mentioned, we have so much air pollution as it is.

I'm never rude to people smoking near me (I normally move further away as it smells dreadful) but what I do not appreciate is those entitled smokers that think standing at entry/exit points is ok forcing everyone into your cloud of death it's disgusting. The affects of smoking are real and I'm glad more people are becoming adverse to it... I can't believe I actually use to do it, silly me!

Shesalittlemadam · 09/12/2019 08:30

@ChestnutSmoothie Stuffing their faces with cakes and doughnuts? How has this sanctimonious comment been allowed to remain since Thursday?????
Obesity has many causes not just overeating. Steroid treatment, thyroid issues etc

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Shesalittlemadam · 09/12/2019 19:15

@Gottheteeshirtandlostit Huddling over cigarettes?! As a smoker I've never huddled over a cig!
Also, if my car didn't switch it's engine off automatically, which it does, and I chose to leave it running and you walked past coughing, spluttering and waving your hand over your mouth, I'd presume you were choking, having an asthma attack or just had a particularly strong cig!
Exhaust fumes wouldn't ever occur to me! Never

AlexaAmbidextra · 09/12/2019 21:38

Stuffing their faces with cakes and doughnuts? How has this sanctimonious comment been allowed to remain since Thursday?????
Obesity has many causes not just overeating. Steroid treatment, thyroid issues etc

But many people are obese because they eat too much. Those who are overweight because of health/medication issues are really the minority.

BettyJean · 09/12/2019 23:05

Most people have an issue with something. Be it smoking, drinking a bit too much, overeating, overspending, gambling, too much time on the internet 😀.

Don’t judge anyone, until you’ve walked a mile in their shoes. On that basis I’m unimpressed with some people’s behaviour towards smokers.

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